Turn

Basically drive in a circle to confirm if they really are following you. If they’re still behind you after the last turn, don’t think twice, Immediately cal 911

This isn't like a retail employee who steals an occasional product. Cops have an enormous amount of power, the misuse of which leads to equally enormous consequences.

Edits:

- https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blue_wall_of_silence is an established thing. Let's not pretend that it's not.

- People can't always choose where they live or who they associate with but people /do/ choose to be cops.

- Mentally lower the 1000 if that really makes you feel better but the principle stands.

Edit2: JFC show me where I said all cops. That being said, any one cop is nervous to say anything about a fellow cop because the Blue Wall of Silence. To extrapolate - So if one cop does a bad thing and one cop knows then it isn't just two bad cops because that one cop won't say anything because they know the majority of other cops won't support the whistleblowing.

This has worked for me on my last three jobs (one of them was a promotion) that I got. When the interviewer asks the question: what salary are you looking for?, instead of listing what you’re expecting ask them instead.

I always start with explaining that I have been researching salaries in my field but wanted to know what they felt is a competitive salary for someone with my experience? (If this your first job interview or you’re going for an entry level job that you don’t have experience in, you can always change the part about experience to “this position”).

Oftentimes, they will give you the number that they are expecting to pay for that position; and every time I ask a potential employer it has been at least $5-$10k more then I was going to ever say.

This also helps you compare what they’re willing to pay vs whether that salary is worth the job. AND you don’t run the risk of under selling yourself! (If they’re expecting to pay $60k and you say $40k, they’re not going to corr

How would you describe an attractive person?

Edit: Text to speech exists people. I dont mind the joke, but yeah there are accessibility options if anyone was genuinely curious.

Edit: Relevant study for anyone interested: Here

Edit2: You guys are really great, I've really enjoyed reading through your personal experiences :) Please stop messaging me asking for acting advice though, what did you see on my profile that made you think I'm an actor?

Trying to settle a debate.

ETA - before as in before you get undressed and ready to hop in.

ETA again: Thanks for all of the responses, although you have made me conclusively lose the debate. To clarify, I get undressed, step in the shower, turn the tap on for a few seconds, position the shower head away from me, switch from tap to shower head, stand at the opposite side of the shower to dodge the water for a few more seconds while it warms up, and then proceed with my shower. I truly thought this was what most people did. Eye-opening.

My dad always wanted a son. He got three daughters instead.

He hated us all, hated my twin sisters, hated my mother… but hated me most of all because I was the last child my mother had before she died. That didn’t stop him from treating me like his little boy, didn’t stop him from attempting to beat the hatred of my own gender into me. Quit your crying, he’d snap, or you’ll end up like your sniveling bitch of a mother. After years of that shit, he was shocked that I grew up as a tomboy.

I think he hated that even more because I was just a constant reminder of what he never got to have.

My mother died when she was only twenty-seven, when I was only four – the coroner ruled her death a natural passing, some weird heart complication that took her in her sleep. My dad, though, he says it was because of her family’s curse. Whenever I came to him, desperate for more information about a mother I never really knew, he never had much to say. I’m convinced he was just drunk since the day

It's been fun, I'll see you guys again on May 9th 2113!