Aita for changing my swimsuit after feeling uncomfortable at a pool party, and than “embarrassing” people when I was asked about it?

This happened on Memorial Day

I’m a 22 year old female. A family friend/neighbor has a large backyard that they love to throw parties in. My family is pretty close with them and usually goes whenever there’s a party. If I’m busy with something my parents don’t care if I miss these events but if I don’t have any plans they make me go with them and my younger siblings.

Over the past 2 or so years, a couple of my dads friends or adults in the neighborhood have been sorta creepy to me at these events. They sometimes make remarks about why I don’t have a boyfriend and how they find it strange. Maybe it’s not that weird but it kinda creeps me out. Or if I go grab a beer, they try to draw out convos about me being old enough to drink now or asking me about my alcohol preferences.

On the day of this party, I was already having a shitty day since I fought with my mom earlier and I was sort of on edge at the party. I was hanging out in the pool, and I went to get out because I had to pee. I f

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"Swimsuit drying, $1"
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Who is your favorite swimsuit character our right now? Mine is okita J souji
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WIBTA if I went over my conservative moms head to buy a swimsuit?

I live close to the beach, so beach culture is a huge part of my life. However, my super conservative mom always insists I wear tankinis whenever I go to the beach, and the only ones she lets me get are super frumpy. I don't want to wear a string bikini, but I hate having wet flappy fabric on my stomach, so I asked my parents about a bikini. My dad is completely on board, but my mom has been screening and turning down each one I've shown her. I wanted to get a cute vintage suit (tend to be very full coverage), but when I found one I liked, she said the color was to bright on top (pink), and that a seam across the chest (think molded cups) would draw too much attention to my boobs. It's frustrating to me, because I can't help having boobs, but somehow she thinks it's my fault if boys stare. My dad is on board with whatever I want to get, and I am really tempted to skip over my mom and ask him to order me something. WIBTA if I did so?

[Here's the suit I want](https://smile.amazon.com/An

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i found one in the wild on a an instagram post about swimsuits
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AITA for not wanting to wear a one piece swimsuit?

I volunteer with a youth organization, ages 9-11, and prior to Covid we would take the kids swimming. Last time we went my boss asked that I wear an appropriate one piece next time instead of a full coverage bikini while my male partner who also volunteers just wears swimtrunks.

Why is it that my stomach and back being uncovered is considered inappropriate? I understand that there are kids present but it's not like others at the pool aren't wearing bikinis. I also find one pieces extremely uncomfortable and dislike the feeling of all that extra wet fabric.

My partner thinks I should just leave it be because he's friends with our boss but I'm tempted to challenge the swimsuit policy or buy a ridiculous one piece with a print of a male chest on it.

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All my swimsuits from last year are now too small. [f] [21]
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Sale banners covering the only important part of swimsuit preview photos.
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I got a bunch of new girl clothes last night, including my first swimsuit, but I also got my first pair of heels, and I feel like a newborn baby deer trying to walk for the first time.
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Rimuru's swimsuit <3
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I made this bikini top! After years of frustrating swimsuits that weren’t what I wanted, I bit the bullet and did it myself 🤘🏽🤘🏽
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I made a swimsuit! (Edgewater Avenue Jace top & Lucy bottom) This was also my first garment project and 2nd sewing project overall!
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It's so hard to feel "sexy" with a small chest, but this swimsuit works well for smaller chests! imgur.com/p6jMTBH
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New evidence against Christian B.: swimsuits, USB sticks and gruesome pictures (Article in German, translated below) focus.de/panorama/welt/de…
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Not a bra but a swimsuit! In my 28 years I have never had a swimsuit top that fit as well as this. I am in love. No spillage and it didn’t rub or hurt after 8 hours of kayaking this past weekend. 10/10 venus.com/viewproduct.asp…
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Blake swimsuit edit! (Sombrella)
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Yang Swimsuit [plameriph]
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Swimsuit Cynthia is being teased... I hope i have enough gems
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Swimsuit Okita and her Master...?
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Not ashamed, and feels the need to broadcast how healthy they are when asking for fit on a swimsuit.
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The nurse in Russia who wore a swimsuit under a transparent protective suit and was scolded for it has landed a job as a model for a sport equipment company sostav.ru/publication/med…
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Which servants u want to see have swimsuits this year?

For me these are the male servants i want to see have a swimsuit

  • chu culain (normal lancer)
  • super orion
  • sigurd
  • knights of the round table(from summer 3)
  • King hassan

For female there is only one i want to see anf that is the OG rider medusa.

So who do you want to see in a cute and hot swimsuit this year?

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usually online shopping is AWFUL for us tall queens, but shoutout to the random $6 Amazon swimsuit that fits me like a glove 🥰 (posted here once before but I’m 6’2”)
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I just got this swimsuit and I look gross in it I am so embarrassed of my body and I have to go swimming tomorrow with my friends and I wanna cry because my body is so fat and ugly sorry for wasting your time smh I just don’t know what to do and my mom said my knees look bad and now I feel worse
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Even Ember’s swimsuit is brown. Somebody get this kid a wildly colored, sparkly, FUN swimsuit! Their aesthetic is so boring.
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I got my swimsuit for the summer in the mail today and I love it!
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Sakuya going swimsuit shopping
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Swimsuit Luna by Fasamma
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Swimsuit skins will be removed in CN after May 28 Maintenance
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Official reveal of Jean Bart swimsuit skin
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Could someone design a swim bra that goes under your swimsuit and holds your tits where they belong?

Please and thank you. 🤬

I found this adorable swimsuit and I just wish my tits could fit 😭

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One last (for swimsuits at least) MANservice Captain Hitsugayas older brother.
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Could this mean that swimsuit Cynthia would debut in Pasio next month?
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1971 'Aqua Fest' swimsuit contest on Town Lake. My beautiful mother in the bikini she made herself.
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Drew Uraraka in my own style! Wanted some summer vibes so I went with beach and swimsuit. Hope you guys like it! (Prolly gonna draw similar pics of the other girls too at some point).
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(Selfie Sunday) really nervous about this honestly, but I broke down and bought a swimsuit from SHEIN!!
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Others buy miracle tickets to exchange for high scorer cards, I bought mine so that I could see lisa winking at me with her swimsuit on
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[OC] Modeus in a swimsuit
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I'm comfortable enough to wear my first girl swimsuit! I feel quite cute
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Paulina Porizkova (She was the second woman to be featured on the Sports Illustrated swimsuit issues's front cover in consecutive years 1984 and 1985)
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Monika's New Swimsuit!
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Bought a swimsuit that actually makes me feel really confident about my small chest! What a blessing.
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Imagine if instead of weird swimsuit/school DLC outfits, we got alternative concept designs.
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Zero Two Swimsuit cosplay by me! 😊💖
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Orange Swimsuit [@siyuri915]
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Swimsut > Swimsuit
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Bring your swimsuit
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Happy Memorial Day weekend! Coming up on one year of HRT and feeling super confident in a swimsuit finally. Can’t go to the beach but I can catch a tan from my balcony :) 🌞
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Drawing Summer/Swimsuit Napoleon into existence
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but that's kayayday's swimsuit, right?
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Selfie Sunday. Old swimsuit from Pacsun that hasn’t seen the light of day in AGES! I haven’t out in a bikini and felt good in ages, so it felt worth documenting:). Also s/o to the lifesaving medical devices peaking thru on my stomach.
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Dionne posted a new YouTube AMA & mentioned she took & still owns the swimsuit from this photoshoot lmao. Stan her
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Rozaliya in her new Swimsuit. 👀
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~~~I drew a summer swimsuit mashu eating watermelon at the beach~~~
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Crazy Neighbor - Swimsuit Edition youtu.be/v9mQsy6pNaM
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The Cynthia Swimsuit Dialogue in the Original JP Version is Different - Elesa Actually Answers "White"
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Friday the 13th: The Game - Leopard Swimsuit 1984
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is it the hip new trend to draw trainers in swimsuits now (oc)
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I’m a size 14/16 and found a flattering swimsuit at Target that actually supports my boobs. Just realized it’s a maternity swimsuit.

Idk how I feel lmao. Like on one hand I don’t care because I’m a DD & finding a suit that actually supports the girls properly is hard. But at the same time I’ve struggled with my weight my whole adulthood so this feels like a slap in the face.

edit: link for anyone interested!

https://www.target.com/p/maternity-leopard-print-sleeveless-halter-neck-wrap-one-piece-swimsuit-isabel-maternity-by-ingrid-isabel-8482-brown-xxl/-/A-54297022

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Swimsuit Karin 🌅 May the SSB rolls be in your favor! More summer models coming soon :D
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Swimsuit season's coming up, babes 😍
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Wedding Style Swimsuit Rem (by garter-velvet) [Re:Zero)
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Swimsuit shion 👌
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Swimsuit Mashu, made by my girlfriend
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A summer themed sync pair seems very likely at this point. Hope it's the teased swimsuit Cynthia
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New swimsuit might come to rh <3
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Swimsuit set made by OceanOrbs may come to Royale High! I think it's adorable, just like everything Ocean makes, and I hope it gets added!
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16 MtF, 1 year HRT! How do I pass in a swimsuit?
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Noire showing off The Strawberry Polka Swimsuit
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Scramble swimsuit (@mobchara11)
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Ali’s swimsuit is on shein :)
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Need to get to a beach ASAP with this cute new swimsuit 🥺💖
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“i LiKe HeR sWiMsUiT”
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New swimsuit for me 😌 (21)
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Zero Two swimsuit cosplay by me!
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Nino on a swimsuit is a goddess ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
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