If you are ready to get married to your partner, speak frankly and honestly with them about it BEFORE you start planning a proposal. Have a real discussion about your future together, the big items that affect a marriage(finances, family, kids, careers, etc) and decide if you are BOTH ready to get married to each other.
It’s a huge decision, and nobody should be put in the stressful position of having to decide in a single moment, or say No and hurt someone that they care about.
Once you know that they’re on board 100%, you can plan the most elaborate or intimate or special proposal surprise that you know your partner would want. You can purchase the ring and know it won’t be wasted. You can build up the tension for as long as you want until the big proposal day arrives and you both can enjoy it without anxiety or doubt.
The engagement should be planned so the proposal can be a surprise!
feels like every single action movie I’ve ever seen has the exact same scene at least once. “Oh no, main character has a gun to their head! How will they survive” and then there’s a gunshot and there’s some bullshit tension where the movie wants us to believe the main character’s dead. Does anyone, ever, EVER buy that? I know you’re not gonna kill of the title character in the first twenty minutes. And then, huge surprise, it wasn’t actually the main character getting shot but some random deus ex machina character who landed the shot perfectly and killed the bad guy. SHOW ME THE ACTION. I WANT TO SEE HOW THIS RANDOM PERSON CAME INTO THE SHOT AND KILLED THE BAD GUY. STOP WITH THIS BULLSHIT I KNOW YOURE NOT GONNA KILL TOM CRUISE TWENTY MINUTES IN. GIVE ME REAL ACTION, DAMNIT.
This happened in January, but it is still argued about when the family meets.
I (22F) have my own apartment, my brother (24M) was staying with me rent free for four months when this happened. He asked several times if he could throw parties, which I refused.
I work mornings from 4.30 AM sorting mail (before college), so I go to bed around 20:30. He knew this before moving in and agreed to it, and he's totally free to have friends over in the afternoon. He didn't like it and kept asking, his friends kept staying later and later so I was already getting a bit annoyed.
Well, on my birthday when I got home the house was freaking full. Mostly my brother's friends, only two of mine. I had been up since 4 AM, and now this was at 18:00, I wasn't in the mood for a party. I'm not much for parties anyway, but especially not after a busy day.
I grabbed my two friends and we hung out in my bedroom, watching netflix and playing magic, just chilling. Around 23:00 I texted my brother a few tim... keep reading on reddit ➡
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Home didn’t feel as empty as it once had. Even without Jamie or Mr Meow I felt more hope than I had in months. I greeted Wrinkles and Tetley, fed them and sat down to smoke at my fold out table.
Natural sun poured in through the windows but my home would never look quite the same after my time in the undertower.
I turned on the shower and must have stood underneath the water, watching Albert’s blood run down the sink, for at least half an hour. Overwhelmed doesn’t cover it. Shut down would be more accurate.
I dithered while getting ready, exhausted and starting to feel the lack of sleep once again. My eyes were heavy. Sitting down on the bed was fatal.
I woke up a few hours later, worried that I’d left Derek waiting.
I rushed out of the flat and down the stairs to the garden. They were extra kind and only made me take... keep reading on reddit ➡
Except that I feel fucking awesome, have never been healthier in my life and spent the morning revamping and adding to my routine. I'm training for a half marathon and plan on losing another 15 pounds.
When this is all over, I'll look better, feel better and be more confident. I'll have no problem finding someone new.
wow... thank you everyone. I was not expecting this response. I'm very happy to say from today on this is all about me and making myself better. For noone's sake but my own- I'm gonna hit my fitness goals and be as healthy as I can be.
“Everything you saw here today was made in dreams”
I just wanted to share this with someone it honestly feels surreal to look at the mirror and see the best version of myself by far, and the only thing that keeps me going during these sad state of affairs are the surprised faces of all of my acquaintances when I see them next
Use this time (if possible) to catch up on all those things you stored up in the attic of your mind, for "later".
Can't share it with anyone else either. Nobody else knows hes jehovahs witness and he doesnt know that I know he is. It was an incredibly akward bday event as it was. Gotta tell someone
It's unfortunate that most great threads that deal with common rules misconceptions and misinterpretations will eventually fall by the wayside and be forgotten regardless of how hot the post is, but I think a lot of game problems and frustrations would disappear if people would remember why we roll initiative and how surprise works.
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Suzy the DM: "The King eyes Malificent the Tiefling with hope. Heroes of the realm, I welcome you to the hallowed halls of Castleville. Alas, in recent months a great evil befalls the land..."
Timmy the Player: "I stab the King in the eye with my rapier."
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I did something special for my father before he passed away and posted it to Reddit which can be seen here.
Well to my surprise someone saw my video and did something so special for my dad. It was an amazing event and it's my last memory of my dad before he passed away. Enjoy everyone. I still haven't had the courage to watch it yet.
Jay Leno Gives A Special Surprise To A Fan Battli…: https://youtu.be/0lOkt_IDVCc
Thank you everyone who viewed and shared my dad's video and helped make this so special for my father and family. And really want to thank Jay Leno's producer, Jay Leno, and everyone who made this happen. My dad passed away a few weeks after this was recorded so this is such a special moment for me and my family.
Edit. I just watched it. Onions everywhere. Can't wait to see it tomorrow on the TV show! Thank you everyone.
Basically the title. Last week my boyfriend surprised me with a puppy without us discussing any aspects of puppy care beforehand. I have not owned a puppy before. He is not home the majority of the time to help with walking, taking potty breaks, training, feeding, cleaning, etc. I am working from home due to COVID but my boyfriend works an essential job, so he’s gone 12 hours a day. That means I am home with the puppy and take care of her all day long and work my job as well. I’m the one who wakes up in the middle of the night to take her outside to potty. I’m the one teaching her to sit, stay, and go to the door when she has to go potty. I’m the one running around with her all day (she’s a Lab). I’m the one cleaning all the accidents and sanitizing and washing clothes and washing dishes and vacuuming. Honestly I’m the main one spending money on getting her what she needs. I haven’t taken care of myself (physically and emotionally) the way I like to since last week. It is HARD. Much ha... keep reading on reddit ➡
For those who don’t know, Surprise Attack gives sidearms double damage when charged with light.
It only costs 1 energy. The buff has no time limit and will not overwrite it’s self (so you can have the buff and get charged with light again). The buff is only used up when you LAND shots. It also stacks multiplicatively meaning with Multikill Clip x3 (as an example) it will do TRIPLE damage.
It’s seriously strong and I would definitely suggest picking it up.
My husband and I have been having a bit of a dry spell over the last two weeks, which started when I wasn’t in the mood for a few days in a row and he was, and seems to have spiraled from there. Tonight since we’re stuck at home I figured I would try and surprise him when he got off work. I put on some lingerie and waited on the sofa around when he usually finishes his last conference call. I got a little over excited early and was touching myself a little bit, and he came out of his office.
He looked at me, seemed disgusted and immediately goes “ugh gross, do that in the bedroom or something” and walks away. I mean I was trying to do something fun and spontaneous and he says gross? I don’t even know how to respond to that. We haven’t talked since that and I’ve just been stewing on that.
I think I’ve gotten a little bit too much in my own head about this because my best plan right now seems like to electrocute him(joking for any that can’t tell). But I mean what kind of response is... keep reading on reddit ➡