this is a long one,im not very good at explaining things and spelling so im sorry if it's hard to understand
a little bit of back story, I met my boyfriend at a pride party during June of 2020, before my country went into lockdown, over the lockdown we started to get to know each other over text and during the second to last week of lockdown he asked me to watch a movie at a teen movie theater, they play movies teens and younger adults like so I said yes, we have been happy for 7 months but onto today.
during the new year my step-aunt invited me to go camping, I wanted to say no but my mum said I had to since I've had social issues and she wanted to help, so at least two days beforehand I texted my boyfriend and told him what's happening, he knows I get homesick and did the sweetest thing and recorded audio for when I needed comfort or when I had a nightmare since he knows how bad my nightmares can be and he didn't want me wasting phone credit on calling him at night.
the day we left to go camping I texted him quick before getting in the car, the step-cousin whos the same age as me asked: "who are you texting and why are they so important than your family?", I slightly rolled my eyes and replied: "Oh my boyfriend, I was just texting him quick so he knows im ok", her eyes suddenly widen and then she tries to grab my phone, she was yelling for her mum telling her 'ops tranny boyfriend is still with her'.
my stepdad (in another post I put I had family issues but were all good now and I moved back) grabbed my step-cousin and sat her in the car, he's a big buff dude and I owe him alot, he told my step-cousin to respect my choices and also to respect my boyfriend, my step-cousin and step-aunt huffed as I got into the car and wanted to zone out.
when we set up camp I find out about disco that night and anyone can go, I texted my boyfriend asking if he can go and he was excited since he could use glow in the dark face paint during the night, later when we ate dinner my step-aunt found my sketchbook of all my art and looked through it, saying my art looked horrible even tho I learned from my sisters, my sister in law and my art teacher who spent time getting me to where I am, I grabbed my sketchbook and hid it in my tent so she couldn't get it.
that night when the disco started my boyfriend showed up with the glow in the dark face paint and my step-cousin suddenly yelled: "OMG ITS THE TRANNY!", my boyfriend looked at me with wide eyes and I went to my protect... keep reading on reddit ➡
So since i was born, i didnt have a mom. She died when she gave me birth. So, me and my dad were alone until 3 years ago, when he met this lady. My Step Mom is preety nice, but i never had feelings for her. She is acting just like a normal mom (lol) . But, after i met her sister (which is 2 years older than me) i was kinda attracted to her. She is kind and cute, and she's a little bit shorter than me. Since the day we met, we had fun togheter, party almost everytime, but never been so close. So, time pased and i started to have feelings for her. I didnt told anybody yet, but the worst thing is that i dont know how to tell my girlfriend. We have been togheter for almost 4 years. So the situation preety sucks and i dont know what to do. If u ask how old i am, im 18 y/o. Have a great day!
My (41F) daughter (21) lives with her stepfather and I. She's had severe bipolar disorder and is trying to take community college courses.
My mom has cancer, and she has been a widow for the last 8 years and my brother isn't much help. So as soon as coronavirus restrictions lifted, I started traveling and staying with my mom at the hospital. I'd stay for several days at a time because it was such a long drive.
My husband's sister is a nurse and my husband suggested she come live with us because she can help my daughter manage her treatment.
When my daughter first met her, she said she really liked her. They'd joke around and my sister in law would buy her gifts.
But as the weeks progressed, I noticed that my daughter wasn't eating. We would all have dinner together and my daughter would say she was tired and refused to come down. I'd have to bring her meals to her rooms and was scared she might have the coronavirus.
She just aid that maybe she should quarantine from everybody. When I came back from visiting my mom again I realized that my daughter usually always gets up at 8am like clockwork but now she's staying in bed forever. When we'd do family activities, her step aunt would have a chair open next to her but she'd go and sit far away from her. Her step aunt would then ask her to sit next to her and she'd look extremely reluctant.
I finally asked today if it was her medications that was making her emotions change drastically or if it was grandma being sick. She started crying and finally said that her step aunt would ask her if she masturbated a lot, once walked into her dressing room while shopping and started trying on pants in front of her, and would sneak up behind her and rub her butt. And would come into her room at night and say stuff like " You should meet my husband, but I'm afraid he's going to leave me for you."
I immediately confronted my sister in law. My husband intervened and said that none of that was true, he told my daughter to come out and started saying that it really hurts everybody's feelings when she says untrue stuff like that. And said that she only went into her room because once she wasn't in her room or anywhere in the house and they were worried because her medication makes her woozy so they check on her.
A lot of tension settles in and finally a few hours later during dinner my daughter casts her eyes down and says she lied about everything and that she was sorry. And then she said sorry to her step aunt and her... keep reading on reddit ➡
So I’m not sure what’s going on I’m looking for advice on behalf of my cousin. to start my uncles passed away late last year .From what I understand my cousin has a different will than the one my step aunt has and a probate case was opened. The case is currently ongoing but my step aunt went ahead and sold my uncles property and home. I would like to know what to do about this as the will my cousin has states he gets the property and the will my step aunt has was signed after my uncle was diagnosed and put on medications although it states she gets the property. State: Florida
When I was around 6F my mom married my step dad (my parents were never married when they had me and have always been on good terms). My step dad had 2 kids of his own who were 9F and 7M at the time, my custody was pretty straight forward and id spend 1 month at my dad's and 1 month at my mom's while they were every 3 weeks at each house. So for 3 weeks every other month id live with them and then every other time I wouldn't. Things at first were not good, my step brother was a very rough kid and I hated playing with him cause he'd break everything and was just mean and aggressive. My step sister wasn't like that but she was just a flat out bitch, she didn't want "a kid" around and wanted nothing to do with me.
So yeah at first things didn't blend well and it didn't change as we all went into middle/high school if anything it got worse. I won't lie I was no saint either in that time but it just wasn't good, I remember my step sister constantly talking down everything I wear when she was over (we did go to the same Highschool) and made me pretty insecure, cause while I wasn't fat I wasn't skinny either. I ended up spending a lot of my HS life in hoodies and leggings or jeans, my step brother was a bit better but I don't really remember interacting with him much cause he went crazy with drugs and sports. I forgot what the fight was about but when I was 17 and my step sister was 20, she said something like "You aren't my sister, and I can't wait till my dad divorces your mom so I never have to see your fatass again." While we were never close we would call each other sisters for our parents sake and never said it out loud that we don't see the other as family. It didn't really hurt me more than the fact that she finally got it out and we could stop pretending, I went to go stay with my dad's for the next 5-6 days till she left for college.
I am 20 now and did something really really stupid and I now have a 1yo son with my boyfriend and we are making it work in a small 1 bedroom apartment. Me and my step sister never really made up and while id see her on holidays that was about it and I don't think we would really talk much if at all (my step brother is still heavy into weed and partying and I'm indifferent on him).
Well about 2 days ago I was visiting my mom with my son and my step sister came over, it was a complete surprise and went to see my baby while she didn't even look or say hi to me or anything. She picked him up and said "auntie (her name), I did... keep reading on reddit ➡
I have always been as honest as possible with my wife. We dated in our early college years and split up for a time. When we reconnected years later I was immediately up front that during the time apart I had fucked a few of her friends, including her best friend and her younger sisters best friend, as well as two people in her family, her step-sister and her aunt. I was also direct about the fact that I wanted to fuck them all again.
This opened up tons of doors in our relationship that I never expected. We talked about my sexual experiences with all of them in detail, sometimes even during sex. Once I even asked her to rank the women in her family from the most bothered she would be to the least bothered she would be if I were to fuck them.
She’s allowed me to regularly be with other women, including my friends and hers with her knowledge. She has watched me fuck other women including her best friend since we got back together.
I have been open as well that I would love to fuck her married mother. What she doesn’t know is that I have actively tried for quite some time and I’m hopeful it will happen. We have sexted, shared porn, and talked inappropriately with one another several times. When she has stayed with us I have made comments about her huge ass openly in front of my wife and when we were alone. She has also seen my semi hard dick in my boxer briefs and actively stared at it while we talked.
I don’t know why I haven’t said anything to my wife yet, but I honestly can’t wait to one day fuck her mom and tell her about it. It’s one of my biggest goals.
We are no longer allowed to see our grandparents under the guise of COVID safety, but these precautions are only applied to our grandfathers side of the family while the step-grandmothers side of the family is allowed to visit regularly. We are deeply hurt and feel like this has been a plan by our step aunt to divide the family for unknown, possibly malicious reasons. Here is some background. We have all lived on a large ranch together for several years. My wife, son, and I in one home, MIL and family in another, and Grandfather, Step-Grandmother and Step-aunt in a third house. The grandparents are very wealthy and there is always inheritance talk going on amongst the family. There has always been turmoil between my MIL and my Step-aunt, but my wife and I have always been the neutral go betweens in the family. The situation could be seen similarly to Democrats vs Republicans as the other side is always wrong no matter what the facts are, and we are the moderates that try to look at the both sides rationally. I feel like a big part of our neutrality is that we are not materialistic people and could care less about receiving any inheritance from the grandparents, we just enjoy good relationships and like to feel family love and support. I cannot say this about anyone else on either side of the family. Recently, we had a large wildfire burn through our ranch. It destroyed the grandparents home and now they are renting a house away from the ranch.
Over the past few years my step aunt has been systematically manipulating the grandparents into disliking my grandfather’s entire side of the family. It starts with some small conflict and next thing you know they are labeled as a terrible person by the step aunt and she pumps her rhetoric to the grandparents on a regular basis. My wife and I have been immune to this slander as we do not like to have conflicts in our life and try not to hold any grudges on people. Recently, however, the step aunt has turned on us over a minor miscommunication and she has deemed us liars and is trying her best to have us excommunicated from the grandparents (we were the last people on the the grandfathers side of the family that had not already been slandered). This is painful for us because we have always been friends with the three of them, regular dinners, helping out around their house etc.. and now we are not being allowed to even see them. Yesterday we went by their new house to drop off Ch... keep reading on reddit ➡
“Let’s go inside; I need you to sit down for me.”
My step sis told me years ago she didn’t ever want kids. She used to be highly depressed and frankly, she still is. Her husband also insisted on not wanting kids years ago. „There’s too many people in this world already“.
Sounds like very reasonable people right?
Well covid comes around, step sis and step bro in law sneakily get married without telling anyone bc she is suddenly very much preganté.
What happened was a string of unfortunate events. These two wonderful people found their personal salvation using ayahuasca and getting the idea that the government is lying to them and science isn’t real. Mind you, they were normal before that. Well step sis and i were talking one day and she told me that condoms are bad for their love energies and cause cancer or something and birth control is not „natural“ either so they play the pull out game instead. I told her That is some BS and that she will definitely end up pregonate this way.
Fast forward to yesterday. I met them again at a nice family hike in the woods and step sis keeps rubbing her 7-months-along-belly. I ask if she’s okay. She tells me it hurts her when the goblin is having their daily kicking exercise and that she‘s terrified of giving birth. She looks miserable. I tell her to have faith in her doctors and lean onto her husband and midwife and to call me if she needs anything. I feel so bad for her. She even told me she doesn’t really feel a connection and that it feels very alien.
Despite getting all those visuals and insights my sister and her husband are very jealous of step sis. They are actively trying for kids for a couple years now without luck. Those people are both addicted to gaming and impulsively blow through their savings to buy more electronics until they are broke and then ask their parents for more money.
None of my other siblings and in-laws are fit to be parents yet all of them want to have kids so bad and are so excited for step-sisters gremlin to pop out and be a „Christmas miracle baby“. I really don’t get it.
There’s too many children out there who don’t have parents and yet all my siblings want their own kids for sone kind of pride reasons. With their shitty genes, addictions and mental illnesses.
I will however be a decent person and spend some time with all the family aliens. It’s not their fault they are being born into extremely dysfunctional families.
Me and my GF are going to be the cool gay aunts and we‘ll take all the future-family-goblins out to the... keep reading on reddit ➡
TLDR: Step-Aunt abandoned a puppy at my grandparent's house.
My step-aunt is the most entitled member of our family. Growing up with rich parents she's never truly worked a day in her life. Most of the family has little to no contact with her because of how much bs she pulls on a regular basis. The craziest thing she's ever done is pressure her Brazillian boyfriend into having a kid with her, only for her to falsely accuse him of being an illegal immigrant, ruining his career. (I feel sorry for her kid)
A few weeks ago she decided to fly from NYC to Alabama to buy a $700 spotted chihuahua puppy then fly to Florida to visit my grandparents. We were already mad at her because she really shouldn't have been traveling now of all times, especially to visit the most at-risk members of our family.
In her regular fashion, she decided that the dog was too much to handle after only four days and abandoned it with my grandparents. No message, no asking if they could look after it, she literally left without a word and provided no supplies to take care of the pup. Of course, my family is furious because they know she'll want it back when it gets older only for her to mistreat it anyways.
There is a slight silver lining to this whole thing. My grandpa absolutely hates Florida and has been stuck inside for months because of the pandemic. A few months before they moved, his oldest dog passed away so he's been enjoying taking care of a new one.
What to learn from this: Don't travel during a god damn pandemic, and don't buy a living creature if you aren't willing to take care of it.
The title may sound bad, but please hear me out.
I recently started living with my fiancé, and he has a 12-year-old daughter from a previous marriage. From what Iʼve seen, she has a very loving and close bond with her mom. Theyʼre always texting, calling each other, always smiling and hugging, etc. and I donʼt think itʼs my place to intervene in that. Itʼs pretty clear to me that she already has a good maternal figure in her life and she never expressed wanting another. To put it in simpler terms, I donʼt want her to think that Iʼm trying to replace her mom and I donʼt want to replace her mom either (since she doesnʼt need or want that).
Of course, I care about her and love her, but Iʼm sure her mom loves her 100 times as much. As weʼre all going to be living together now, weʼre getting to know each other better, and she asked me if she was supposed to think of me as a mom. I told her that even though I do care about her, she already has a much more special bond with her mom, that I wonʼt be able to replicate that, and that she probably wonʼt love me as much as her no matter how close we get (I wasnʼt as blunt / descriptive as this). So, I ended it with saying that she should think of me as more of a really involved aunt than a mom.
She told me that she was completely fine with that, and didnʼt really seem to care. My fiancé overheard this, and later confronted me saying that I was being a jerk by saying all of those things, and that I “basically said I did not want to be involved in her life” (even though thatʼs not what I meant, itʼs more about her feelings about me coming into her life rather than my feelings about coming into hers). AITA?
After leaving my controlling stepdads house to live with my dad, I decided to celebrate by getting a tattoo. But because I am extremely coward with needles and I didn't want something so permanent, I got a henna tattoo, those that disappear after a week or so. I was a beautiful mandala flower that covered my whole left shoulder. After getting it, I obviously did what any other 17 years old millennial teen would have done.... post it in all my social media accounts until my cellphone died from exhaustion. Without kidding you, for the 9 or 10 days my tattoo lasted, I uploaded about 50 photos (yeah, you can cringe if you like)
But let’s cut to the chase, it had been about a week or so after my tattoo banished when my cousin sent me a photo with the caption "Hello prima! We are now tattoo twins!" showing me the new edition on his left shoulder, a tribal-style wolf head. My first though was laughing and asking how my step aunt reacted to him getting a henna drawing on his arm. But then I saw the picture with more detail.
Black Lines. Oil black linework. That was no henna tattoo, it was a permanent one!
I almost fainted. My 14 years old step-cousin, the son of a woman who was a nun before leaving because the community was not "traditional" enough, the woman who almost stopped my step-dads marriage to my divorced mom, the woman who can barely accept my existence because I have a gay father, the woman who dresses like a 1910's housewife, now had a devil looking wolf tattoo permanently marked on his arm. Which apparently he got following my example.
After a message confirming it was a real tattoo, he stopped responding the chat. I could only expect the worst. And two days after, it happened: my step -aunt came to my house.
Not a big deal, right? .... this woman lives 18 HOURS AWAY!!!!! And yes, she came in her car. My dad made the dumb mistake of opening the door without asking who was in the first place and she came inside like a tornado run loose until she found me in the living room.
If words could kill and condemn someone, I would probably be in the seventh circle of hell right now after all the insults I heard. "P*ta bastarda drogadicta malcriada hija del demonio" (Bastardous drogadict devil spawn b*tch ) was the softest one,. She actually wanted to hit me with a freaking WOOD RULER, but thankfully my dad was able to contain her of time. He is 1,85 m , she is 1,65 m, but it was still quite the struggle. In the end he was able to push her out and clo... keep reading on reddit ➡
I TOLD HIM I WOULD POST IT ON HERE
Hello step parents! I’m looking for some advice.
My estranged sister is getting married next Saturday to a man that has a 6 year old daughter. I’m not very familiar with blended families but I think that after my sister ties the knot I will become a step-aunt? Is that a thing?
Unfortunately my sister and I don’t have a relationship right now but I am hoping eventually that will change.
Are your siblings involved in your step children’s lives? Are your siblings considered an aunt/uncle to your step children? Any feedback or advice would help me greatly!
So i am from romania so my grammar is low so enjoy So my garden have a pool that i am so strict with the rules like u can't enter if u not peed And today my step-aunt/karen and i taked a nap because i work so hard After an hour i seed my step-aunt and her kids sit in my pool. I was shocked and i said
Op:what are you doing Ep:why are having some fun Op:you should ask Ep:a is a cheap pool now make us some milkshackes Op:no i won't if you don't get out i am gonna call your husband Ep:okay but you need to pay us Op:what Ep:exact Part 2 cine today
Here's another post about my aunt and grandmonster. You've previously read about them in several other posts.
My mother and my dad met through mutual friends and soon fell in love.Since grandmonster was obsessed with maintaining complete control over her son's life, (she saw it as the only way to secure her future as her husband, my grandpa, had left her for her sister) she did not like this one damn bit. Surely if another woman came into the picture, her son would stop taking care of her. It's not like my dad was a decent human being who would always be there for her (/s in case it wasn't obvious). She tried every trick in her arsenal to try to tear them apart, from lying to my mom that dad was cheating on her to denouncing my mom as a "loose woman" because she sometimes played tennis after work. My aunt aided her in her attempts, because that cunt just couldn't bare to see my dad happy. But despite all of their nefarious designs, my mom and dad got married.
My mom was a Provincial Civil Services officer and much better educated than my dad. While dad was nothing but proud of her, grandmonster and aunt constantly taunted him about being "outdone" by a woman. They also shamed my mom for having a career because "women in our family dedicate themselves to their FaMiLy".
My aunt, along with her husband and son live quite close to my dad's place. Everyday after picking up my cousin from school, she would come over and gossip with grandmonster. When my mom came home from work, she would be expected to cook for aunt's family as well so aunt could pack it up and take it home with her when she left because "the poor thing was just so tired". Exactly what strenuous activity the lazy bitch had done that got her so tired was never adequately explained. Finally my dad put his foot down and this nonsense came to an end. Aunt's daily visits and her constant interference in their home, however, continued unabated. In spite of putting up with my aunt and doing whatever grandmonster demanded to make her feel comfortable, my mom was never made to feel welcome any time she visited aunt's place with my dad.
When mom became pregnant with me, grandmonster and aunt decided to escalate their abuse. Earlier they only tormented her psychologically, now they became physically violent. They would push her, pull her by her hair, slap her - all while she was pregnant. They also tried to make sure she didn't get enough food. Mom and dad usually cooked together in the morning befo... keep reading on reddit ➡
Hi Reddit, you know how it goes. Throwaway account, longtime pro-revenge reader, never participated until now, don't want to use my real account, sorry for the lengthy tale, TL;DR at the end.
I come from a stereotypical, close-knit, super-nice Canadian family. We have some raging, uppity Quebequois in our ranks, but other than thinking they rule the world and that they speak real French while French people speak a trash dialect, they're part of our family too, and we love them.
I'm twenty-nine now, but the first part of this story took place around fifteen years ago, when I was still a kid. I have two brothers, one younger by two years (Kevin), and one older by three years (Paul), and I'm my family's only daughter. My mom was and is a homemaker, and my dad is now a retired accountant, but before that he spent a decade in the Canadian army.
Our family's closest relatives were my uncle Gary and his wife Bernice, who lived in the next province over on the border and visited our family multiple times per year with their sons Howie and Frank, who were around the same age as me and my brothers. So, we kids were all good friends growing up. Being the only girl, I got to do all kinds of stereotypically male games like football, fast-pitch baseball, hockey, building treehouses, and things of that nature. We had other extended family to come over for Christmas and Easter, but Uncle Gary and Aunt Bernice were close enough to us that they'd come over just because Gary had a good day at work and wanted to make a celebration dinner out of it. Gary was an artisan who built furniture from scratch and sold it from his own store, first at his physical store but then later online too. His biggest triumph was when a hotshot attorney commissioned him to furnish his entire suite of five offices across Montreal. Before that he was a soldier like my dad in the Canadian army, which meant he'd shoot you but say please first.
So these fun times continue from the time I was a baby up until I was around thirteen, when Aunt Bernice developed inoperable breast cancer, and passed away at only forty-six. It hit Gary very hard and of course was a nightmare for his sons too, who lost their mom right around when they started high school.
Gary had a couple of depressed years, even though he tried to put up a brave front. Eventually, he met a woman online from Manhattan, NYC, who I'll call Linda. Linda was only twenty seven when Uncle Gary started dating her, or rather starte... keep reading on reddit ➡