So, you’re probably wondering how we got here and honestly so am I. For background, my husband was diagnosed with a rare and aggressive form of cancer last year and we are facing bankruptcy. His treatments are very expensive so in order to offset the costs I am planning a silent auction for him next month.
I posted about this on Facebook to get the word out and my sister-in-law’s friend reached out to me offered to make shirts for the event which is really awesome of her.
She sent me the first concept and it was a design of the American flag with the cancer symbol in the middle and the word “Fight.” I texted her back to say I had something different in mind. I want something that better represents my husband and his battle against cancer and while there’s nothing wrong with the flag, it just isn’t a symbol of him or what he’s going through right now. (He is not in the military and I’ve never seen him wear anything with the flag on it. He and I both agree that it wouldn’t fit his pe... keep reading on reddit ➡
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Last weekend my partner and sister in law went bra shopping together. My sister in law is a very, very large girl, she is around 5ft and 150kgs (she always talks about her weight) and none of her current bras fit her anymore, so she asked if my gf could help her out in finding something for her size that would fit. My gf pleased to help her, so she took some time out of her day to take my sister in law shopping for some new bras. My gf is a small girl, around 4ft 8 and 45kgs (this is relevant)
So they finally find some bras that fit my sister in law and while bra shopping my gf decides to buy some new bras as she found a few she really loved. I then came to pick them both up after shopping (busses and parking is terrible here)
During the drive home my sister in law is boasting about her massive boobs and asked my gf what her boob size was. Now my gf is a small girl and her boobs are in proportion for her body, but you know how girls can be an... keep reading on reddit ➡
I have a brother and I am 15 years older than he is. Our parents died when I was 21 and I took in my brother. The only proper thing my parents did was invest in real estate and left behind a will that left me and my brother half. However, I am the trustee of my brother's half until he is 35. My brother married at 22. He's 25 now. I don't like his wife. She's self-centered, a bitch, nasty and can't be nice. But my brother is in love with her. They are very open about never having children, which both saddens and relieves me at the same time. My brother also has some health issues as well.
Whenever my brother needed money and he did not have it (he works as a machinist) , he would have to ask me. I run his half of the inheritance. I sold all the real estate my parents owned and made a ton of money. I am very strict with what I approve, much to my brother's anger. I tell him I might his brother, but I am also the bank and banks just don't give money out. For example, he wanted to buy his... keep reading on reddit ➡
My (21F) SIL, I'll call her Sarah, has been with my brother for about 6 years now. She is 38, my brother is 39. She's very beautiful and we all got on really well at first and did everything we could to make her feel welcome.
She's made countless comments about me but there's a character limit so I'll just quote some here for reference. 'Your body is too misshapen for that dress' 'You sound like you've been smoking for the last 10 years' 'You should wear contacts for your dull eyes' 'Your oily skin bothers me' 'Have you considered lip fillers? I'll pay for you' 'Online relationships work best for you because they can't see you close up'
She would only make the worst of the comments when we were alone but once she got caught. My brother has a child (6M) from a previous relationship and at one point he actually came in, pushed her away from me and said 'Sarah, [me] is beautiful, stop talking about her looks!' He was being sweet and jokey about it but it made Sarah really mad. At one p... keep reading on reddit ➡
So, the day before yesterday I (22f) took a small handful of my SILs (17) chips. Rule of the house is if it's in the kitchen, it's fair game. If you don't want to share, keep it in your room.
She literally screamed and yelled and cried about it for the entire last two days, whining about how I "didn't even ask if I could have some". I interrupted her final tantrum yesterday and pointed out she not once has ever asked if she use my toothpaste, body wash, sugar scrub, pads, etc etc. She's been stealing everything of mine since I moved in but heaven forbid I take a small handful of chips.
She then accused me of stealing her hair scrunchies. I reminded her that I shave my head and have no use for hair accessories. The reason she found them in my room is because they got mixed with my laundry, which happens quite often, and I hadn't put them in the cabinet yet. Not sure why she was in my bedroom though.
I cannot wait for my partner and I to move into our own place... Once this quaran... keep reading on reddit ➡
So my brother and his wife, who I have always got on with well, have 2 young kids (aged 1 and 3). I love my nieces a lot, and enjoy buying them gifts and having them over to stay at my house for short periods. Though, like all kids, they can be hard work. However, the other night I was having dinner with my brother and the wife and we got into "what if" conversations, and it somehow came up that his wife expected I would raise the kids if something were to happen to her and my brother. I don't know why she thinks this, as we never discussed it. However, I travel a lot for work and, for lots of reasons, don't think I would be equipped to do that. I explained that I would still want to be in the kid's lives and would spend time with them, but would not be in a position to raise them. SIL is now PISSED that I would "choose my job over my own family" and "let my nieces go into care". I think that's a bit extreme as we have plenty of other family who might be willing to take over. My brothe... keep reading on reddit ➡
When I (36F) and my husband (37M) got married a 3 years ago, we decided I would move into his house and keep my condo. While we were dating, we spent time equally between both places. My unit was closer to downtown and attractions in our city and his house was farther away from everything but much larger and in a quiet neighborhood. Since my place was nearly paid off and the mortgage is very inexpensive (I bought right out of college before the area was as nice as it is now), we decided it would make sense to use it for out of town guests, parties or when we were too tired to drive home after a night out.
Last month, his sister (28) asked if she and her girlfriend could come for 4th of July weekend and stay at the condo. We agreed. She would drive in from their hometown that Thursday and stay until Monday. Last week, she slipped up and mentioned that she would be having a Pride event at my place. At first she tried to backtrack and say she would be attending one then admitted that sh... keep reading on reddit ➡
So my sister Sara (27) was married to a sailor (merchant marine) who was away on a ship for months a time. They got a 2 years old daughter. To save money when husband was away she was living with me 33/f and my husband.
But problem was our brother Jack (25). Him and Sara were always wild (before she married) and every time Sara husband gone to sea they would both go party crazy. It was always Jack who was bugging her and leading, despite being older she always followed his lead. Jack excuse was that her husband is sailor and he got girl in every port and she deserve to have fun as well.
So basically it was me who cared for her kid while she and Jack would go crazy. Half a nights she didn't even come home and would (i assume) sleep in Jack apartment. One time they when they didn't respond my calls and i was super worried and gone to Jack apartment (i got spare key) and when i came in he was sleeping naked with some girl on a couch, alcohol everywhere and our sister was in his room all... keep reading on reddit ➡
My sister in law has a horrible habit of making impulsive decisions at the drop of a hat, usually requiring my wife to get her out of situations and pick up the pieces. She also has a habit of adopting animals just because they look cute and giving them away as soon as they grow up, or prove too much to handle.
Recently, somehow, someway, she managed to obtain a fox. A fox that's barely older than a baby.
Foxes are illegal to own where we live, even with a permit, and she knows this. I don't know alot about foxes, but I do know that they are very high maintenance and hard to take care of, plus my sister in law has a tendency to neglect the animals, which often leads to call a regarding the welfare of the animals.
I texted her shortly after I found about, saying that foxes were illegal to own, but to not let him out because he probably couldn't defend or hunt. She replied that she knew perfectly well what she was doing (spoiler alert! she didn't) and to mind my own business.
I b... keep reading on reddit ➡
This happened some years back, but was brought up recently after some discussion. Some backstory, my husband's family is traditionally Armenian (I'm not). We'd been together 4 years up to that point. My BIL was in the midst of planning his wedding that July, and his (now) wife had a bridal shower planned the month before. The chosen weekend coincided with my father's birthday, and my family had already planned for a small get together. It was a rare occasion since my elder siblings all live long distances and we never have the chance to all be together. I never recieved an invitation, and was only informed 3 days prior when my MIL brought it up. I wasn't even asked to attend, it was more of a "You have to go since you're family" command. I told my husband I declined because it didn't seem fair I hadn't been formally invited, rather tacked on as an afterthought. Besides, it was the same day as my dad's birthday. He relayed my response to his mother who answered with "Her father will... keep reading on reddit ➡
I am going to call my wife Jessica and my SIL Emma, but these aren't their real names.
Emma and I have always been close, but we have been spending more time together recently and have gotten closer. We are a lot alike and have similar senses or humor and similar interests. You know how sometimes two people just click and have instant chemistry? That has always been us. She is like a combination of a best friend and younger sister to me. I say all of this because I think our closeness helps explain some of Emma's behavior yesterday.
Yesterday I along with my wife, two brothers, sister, and their partners were at my parents' home for a pool party. When we were getting ready to walk down from the house to the pool, Emma said she was tired and mentioned getting a piggyback ride. As soon as she said that she ran over and put her arms around my neck. I thought it was funny so I said okay and carried her down to the pool and then dumped her in it. Everyone seemed to think this was funny... keep reading on reddit ➡
I've been married to my husband (27M) for a year now, together 5 years. I've always been close with his family and very soon after meeting them I was made to feel as part of the family. I'm especially close with his mother, Danielle. We are very much alike and she is a wonderful mother figure to me and she's told me she sees me as the daughter she never had. This is where the trouble begins. My husband's brother (31M) is married to a woman named Liz, my sister in law. She's been in the family for longer than me. While I always knew that Danielle was closer to me, I didn't think it was a big deal because Danielle and Liz are very different people in terms of interests and hobbies. So naturally Danielle gravitated towards me because we are so similar. However, Danielle has always been nice and respectful to Liz and they always seemed to get along (judging by what I saw from the family gatherings and parties). Prior to us getting married, my husband told me that his parents needed time to... keep reading on reddit ➡
Might I add, without any provocation. They were on a father/daughter date.
(The recent Dina/Tommy news inspired me to do a rewatch of Jersey from season 1. That reminded me of all the internet drama that went on with this show, including some from before it even aired. I wanted to go back and see if anyone alluded to mob stuff, and they do...)
Back in April 2008, Bravo announced the 4th Real Housewives city: New Jersey! Filming had already started, and the series aired a year later in May 2009.
When the announcement was made, not much was known on the internet about who the cast would be. But in Franklin Lakes, word got around and locals started talking about the women they knew who were filming. If you googled “real housewives of new jersey” back then, all that really came up was the bravo announcement, and a few days later, a random NJ blogger made a post about it:
>My friend Bon-fier sent me an email last night, telling me she had heard that the next evolution of the "Real Housewives of ..." show on Bravo was going to involve New Jersey housewives.... keep reading on reddit ➡
I’m new to this sub so please forgive me for this long post but I’m hoping to give this some context. It started when I [25F] met my husband [29M] back in early 2014. We were married in August of 2015. Long story short, I met him when I was 7 months pregnant and we started dating and he has been the best father to my now 6 year old little girl that I could’ve ever asked for.
My husband has a twin brother [29M] (we’ll call him Alex) who had been dating his girlfriend [27F] (we’ll call her Melanie) for 5 years when he proposed to her in early 2014. When I met Alex and Melanie, everything went well. They were very nice to me and very accepting of my daughter as well. My husband’s parents were the same way.
Later in 2014, Melanie asked me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding. I have to admit I was pretty surprised since we weren’t super close but was definitely honored and said yes. In December of 2014, I became engaged to my husband and Melanie seemed very happy for me. When the wedding... keep reading on reddit ➡
I am a 24f and I still live with my parents, but so do my brother (30m) and my sister-in-law (25f).
They have 2 twin toddlers already. They don't really take care of them because my parents, who have recently gotten their title as grandparents, take most of their time to spoil, love, and care for them as they did with us growing up. I would say their connection with their grandparents is better than with their parents.
Now that I am working from home, I find myself babysitting the kids sometimes too - which I don't mind, but I would much prefer it if my brother and my sister-in-law spent more time with them instead. My older brother had the audacity to tell me to move out, get married soon, so they can take my room. As much as I would like to, I am not financially able to afford to move out either. Maybe that puts me on the same level as them?
My older brother doesn't have a great job and has been temporarily placed his job on hold because of COVID-19, so he has been collecting our... keep reading on reddit ➡
I am pretty close with both my brother and his wife. For the entire time I've known her, my SIL has been decently overweight. Not to the point that it really affected her life a ton, but still noticeable.
I talked to my brother and SIL almost every day over quarantine. Through these conversations I found out that SIL decided to lose weight over the lockdown. She decided to follow this dieting philosophy where you don't count calories or restrict food. You're supposed to increase your amount of exercise while also gradually cutting out unhealthy foods and replacing them with healthier ones. It's supposed to make you healthier and then eventually lead to weight loss.
This all sounded fine to me and I supported my SIL whenever we talked. However she did say that she wasn't really losing much weight, but she thought it was because she was gaining muscle.
Yesterday I finally got to visit my brother and SIL after three months apart. Straight away I noticed that she hadn't lost any weight... keep reading on reddit ➡
Dow to quarantine my sister-in-law sends her 9yo son to stay with me and my husband. Its was the best solution because she and her husband are both doctors.
My husband is a photographer and I am an editor and colourist. Because I worked from home in the quarantine I relocated my computer in a little room, which I and my husband didn't use. I have a very expensive computer and I didn't want my nephew even look at it. My husband told me that he was mischievous. I was met with the child only once, at our wedding, and he was pretty restless.
I have left the house for groceries with my husband. The kid was home alone just for a quarter-hour. He had open the room, that I have "hidden" my computer and somehow he had broken the hardware for the colour correction, one of three monitors and the mouse. All that cost around 2500$.
When I told my sister-in-law to cover at least the half cost, she responded that she wasn't her fault, that her son "is just a kid" and she doesn't have to pay me bac... keep reading on reddit ➡
My fiancé and I recently bought an amazing co-op apartment in a very popular part of our capital city (we live in a northern European country). It is very difficult to buy this kind of apartment here and you rarely get the opportunity unless you know someone who knows someone who knows someone. You get the point.
When we got the offer to buy our place my fiancé's parents helped us get in touch with a bank who would lend us the money we needed. (We already had a lot of savings and we could pay alot of the price ourselves, and we lent the rest from the bank, so no money was given to us by his parents)
When an apartment in our co-op building is being sold we have an array of waitlists we have go go through before the apartment actually gets to the open market (it never does, thats why it's so difficult to get in). Everyone in the building has one name they can put on our waitlist for friends/family, and now my in-laws wants us to put my Fiancé's little sister on it. They feel like... keep reading on reddit ➡
We have the exact same first name. We’ve been friends with each other since childhood and grew up in the American midwest. I’m good friends with her parents. (They’ve been together for 38 years!) The 3 of them have always been good to me and the few people who are very easy to interact with, as I’m on the autism spectrum and it is rarely easy with others. I love them.
Sister-in-law married my half-brother who I don’t know as well, we didn’t grow up together but we have the same last name. Sister-in-law and I now have the exact same first name and last name because of that marriage. That would’ve been amusing to us if we had the same friendship as before. In the last 5-6 years she would get into the same things I’m interested in, that everyone in the family knows I’m into, but never want talk to me about them like she would’ve years ago. I recently found out she got the same undergraduate degree I did. She now goes to the same physician I do. I found that out because I was billed her... keep reading on reddit ➡
My husband's youngest brother just got married to a women he met two weeks ago and we invited them over to get to know her. She seemed very nice and friendly until she called me a slut and told me I'm a horrible mom.
So what happened was we were sitting at the table having some tea and chatting while our husbands were lighting up the grill and having beers outside when she asked me what our kids looked like (they were at my sister's house for the weekend) so I get out my phone and show her a few pics. She kept saying how cute and handsome they are as she was scrolling through my phone. I noticed she hit the back button on my phone and click on what I thought was the file labeled "my babies" until her face contorted to this weird disgusted look and I reached for my phone to see what she was looking at and she pulled it close to her chest and started walking toward the back door. I jumped up and asked what's wrong and for my phone back and she turns around and starts on a rant about how... keep reading on reddit ➡
That is, my wife thought Janice was MY sister...
Throwaway bc idk if she's on reddit or not.
So a little bit of context: for various reasons, my brother, sister in law and nephew moved back in at our parent's house shortly before lockdown started. I still live here because I'm only 20 and haven't moved out yet, mostly because rent round our ends is mad. It's a big enough house, but with not going out and things we're all kind of living on top of each ofher.
I work as an Emergency Medical Dispatcher. It's a pretty stressful job at the best of times. However, on Wednesday I was on a late shift and during it I got two upsetting calls which made it even worse than usual. I was pretty deained when I got home in the wee hours. On Tuesday night, I had gotten takeout from my favourite pizza place and I had a couple of slices left. All I wanted to do when I got home from this rough shift was to eat my pizza, watch some Futurama and go to bed. When I looked in the fridge, though, my pizza was gone.
I knew before even asking my sister in... keep reading on reddit ➡
Holy smokes y'all, this just happened. I was fully naked with my dick and saw my 'wife' bent over (with no panties) loading the dryer so I put it in but she screeched and said "what are you doing brother in law". It was her twin sisterNone of that happened. Stop writing these stories.
What really happened:
My wife does actually have a twin sister and they look relatively alike. The only real tell are the freckles on my wife and that my sister in law is paler. A key piece of information is that my sister in law is supposed to be on the other side of the country.
Now picture being on the way to the stores to get groceries, like on any other day, and seeing what looked like your wife, making out (very publicly might I add) with an older guy outside the park. I don't even know why I thought it was her since I left her at home but the brain is an interesting organ. I froze and my eyes were stuck on the two of them as I drove past and straight into another car. Not giving a single fu... keep reading on reddit ➡
My sister "celebrated" her 50th a few weeks ago. Her kids (late teens) are good in many ways but have incredibly bad manners and are selfish and ungrateful as hell. Christmas with them is like watching a flock of seagulls fight over chips at the beach and even in their late teens they rarely say please or thank you and historically have complained about the gifts they recieved. For their mum's birthday there was a family gift that the dad organised and a card that he wrote and signed on the kids behalf. The younger one made a token effort to ice a basic cake that she bought from the supermarket but the older two barely said anything to her all day. Sister had to organise her own party.
Sis has had a prick of a year (cancer scare took her by surprise plus urgent thyroid operation).
My mum (their gran) my wife and I took the kids aside (at their house) to say that the fact that they made zero effort was poor fucking form and that they really should put their heads together to... keep reading on reddit ➡
My husbands sister is getting married in a week or so. She just texted me and said that her photographer did a crap job on their engagement photos, and the photographer is now pregnant and hesitant to photograph the whole thing due to Covid, but she will since she is contractually obligated (again, they feel she is going to do a shit job, due to her unease and recent engagement work). My sister in law is asking me to photograph in addition to this faux-tographer, whom they are still paying. I’m irritated. I’m not happy about them holding a wedding during a global pandemic and I don’t even want to be there in the first place. Now they are asking me to shoot about 8 hours worth of the event, for free, and she is going to pay someone else for their shit work. Am I being unreasonable?
My sis in law and her family went on vacation. Not wanting to leave their car unattended they asked if we would watch it. I said sure. She said we could use it if we needed seeing our car is getting repaired. I said if I did then I would put gas in it. Well they picked it back up yesterday. An hour later she called screaming because I had not put gas in the car, I told her I didn't because I never used the car, never even started it up. She asked why and I told her that I didn't need to go anywhere in it. (I have several stores and pizza places in walking distance of my house) well after that she got on online and tried to Facebook shame me. She brought the car over with 1/8th of a tank of gas and tried to tell people it was full. Problem is she is a known lier. I think she thought I would use it for a few quick trips and she would get a full tank for free. She even sent me a PayPal invoice for $60 for gas. Now I'm just not even answering her calls.
So what do you think Reddit. I'm a... keep reading on reddit ➡
Not my main account as my family may see this but I wanted to ask you guys something.
Bit of background- my brother and SIL have 2 children currently, a 3 year old and an 11 month old. They have very recently (within the last 2 months) moved into their own place after being on the housing list for 4 years. Previously they lived with my parents and me in our already very overcrowded house. Me and my boyfriend have been saving to move in together for the past year and I had managed to save a good chuck of money (about £900, enough to pay for my half of everything). My brother and SIL currently have a CCJ they are in the process of paying off due to some bad money decisions on their part. When they finally got offered a house, they didn’t have the money to pay for anything that was needed, readily available (deposit, furniture, appliances etc.) so me and my mum helped them out. I loaned them £500 with the strict proviso that they would pay it back (I made sure that when they were setti... keep reading on reddit ➡
My shits going missing...first it was my tshirts, then my coffee mugs, now my MOTHERFUCKING SHOES. I’m so beyond irritated. If this is the game they wanna play, I’m about to start taking their shit too.
Also Cunt-A-Sore-Ass started a fight while we were heading out to get gas. Whispering to DH about SIL loan consolidations or some shit. He called her ass out asking her why she’s whispering and how it’s not his problem. She’s a big girl and can figure out her school loans herself. She brings up DHs text in his family group chat. The cellular networks were down today so he texted them “before y’all think I’m broke and don’t pay the bills the networks are down” and they’re soooooooo butthurt about that 😭😂. I give him props!!!!!
She pretty much followed us into the garage to continue the fighting and saying how he always picks a fight with her when she’s so tired from work and just coming home. He responded with “yeah we all came from work, we’re all tired get over yourself” and I wa... keep reading on reddit ➡
My sister in law and brother unfortunately has their child 7F placed into into foster care due to my brother being in jail and my sister in-laws drug use.
I recently find out when my sister in law was arguing with me over the phone, she ended up saying during the argument something along the lines of “your brother a dumbass for thinking that kid is his” which made me ask my brother to do a paternity test which he was able to do while incarcerated and it turns out that the poor child isn’t his.
I’m super upset about it because I would have never taken in the child if I knew she wasn’t my brother child. I put a lot on hold to take this child in, I had to put my wedding on hold for another year, move into a bigger more expensive apartment and give up a huge work opportunity
My brother wants me to take care of her until their moms able to because he still see her as his daughter but I never planned to take her in for a long time, i knew my brother wasn’t gonna be in jail for over 1 yea... keep reading on reddit ➡
Everyone in the story live under the same roof. A 3 bed 2 bath apartment.
My SIL (25) asked me (23) to babysit her two kids age 1 and 2. I was cool with it had no problems. Upon waking up I see my roommate (17) making eggs. He's normally gone by now and I strike up a conversation. I find out he's off and plans to have some friends over. I tell him about the babysitting he tells me he'll help out if I need anything.
SIL then rushes out of her room telling me she's running late and that the kids are in the room playing and to check on them later to see if there fine. I asked if they eaten. She says no but I can give them toaster waffles and out the door she goes.
I tell RM that I'm going to the restroom and if he can check on the kids. Before I was even finished I hear a child screaming at the top of his lungs. I rush out and see a drenched 1 year old, my RM trying to calm him down and a tub full of water. RM tells me that he heard a bang, a slash and when he got to the tub the kid w... keep reading on reddit ➡
This happened a while ago but I’m still hearing about it in the family group chat.
Couple months ago my sister in law found out she was pregnant and her views on pregnancy and motherhood (as well as other things) are really strange, at least to me. For instance, the shape of a belly (mild) and how boys and girls should be raised (stereotypes all around). Then as her pregnancy progressed she made her views on birthing very clear: anyone who has a c-section is not fit to be a mother.
I was very confused because I was born via c-section and so was my oldest. I asked her why does she think so, she said that it was the easy way out and a mother should feel the pain for her baby, be one with the baby, and all that. My partner (their sibling) reminded her that I went through a c-section and SIL said, “well, my point still stands, doesn’t it? No offense (my name) but you are a bit absent in your oldest’s life. Is your career really that worth it?”
Me not being a stay at home mom has been... keep reading on reddit ➡
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I (19F) have two twin 3 year old sons that I gave birth to in highschool, two years before I met my fiancé. Their father (19M) is also heavily present in their life. For a little background, I am Sicilian and Greek, and their father is Korean. Safe to say, they look very not white. My fiancé, however, looks very white. Curly blonde hair, pale skin, blue eyes. Whenever me and my fiancé go out with them, no one assumes that he is the father, which has never bothered me, my fiancé, their father, or my boys. Even now, as I am in the last few weeks of our first pregnancy together, we haven’t had any problems with our family. My fiancé and his parents are ecstatic for our baby girl, and so are my boys and their father. The only person it does bother is his older sister. Three days ago, while we were setting up the nursery in our apartment, his sister began talking about how I was not fit to be a good mother, and all the “complications” that would come from her bei
Im a FTM human being. Im not out to my family as i've tried and long story short was told 'no your not trans i know you better' (i wish i was lying)
At my college everyone knows i identify as a man And refers to me as such. They call me He/Him pronouns and my preferred name. I also like theater and participated in a few plays.
Now heres where the story begins
I was playing Peter Pan in a production of it. And the colleges newspaper was doing a piece. The author of the piece used my preferred name and Nuteral pronouns (they/them). I knew of this and got my own copy and i was super happy to have this.
Well during tech week i got a message from my sister in law... in a group chat- with my parents. With screen shots of the news paper highlighting the name. Asking me why and when i said 'hey why did you do that' she got defensive saying she was just curious and when i asked how she got it (she doesn't go to my college) she told me her friends son got it and showed it to his mom since... keep reading on reddit ➡
My (33f) husband's (36m) sister (35f) is currently staying with us because of many circumstances. She will be staying with us for the foreseeable future. I'm gonna be honest, I wasn't exactly excited about her staying with us but she didn't have anywhere else to go so I relented. I frankly just don't really like her, although we're completely civil.
Now, my parents are from a certain European country and my first language was that country's language. My heritage is important to me and being bilingual has helped me out immensely throughout my life. When we first started dating, my husband made an effort to learn the language, and now although he isn't exactly fluent, he can understand and speak it well.
We also have two kids (9f and 6m). At home, they are supposed to speak my language. We absolutely don't have a problem when they speak English at school, or with friends at our house, or occasionally if they can't figure out how to say it otherwise. But overall, they are supposed to li... keep reading on reddit ➡
So a little back ground. My BIL and SIL son (16m) lives with me and has since February. I have temporary legal guardianship of him. My food stamps recently came up for renewal and I added him on yesterday (4/27) I messaged them today to let them know and they lost their shit on me. They have been claiming him for cash aid and food stamps even though he no longer lives with them. I have 2 children of my own who I also take care and provide for. They are demanding I take him off the application so they can get more money (they don’t have jobs) so they can move out of my father in law’s apartment.
Because I have done this the state will now find out they have been lying for 3 months and do a investigation and find that they also weren’t claiming the money their son was making for 6 months (he had a jo... keep reading on reddit ➡
Long time ago, when I live with my ex-husband I was a free babysitter for his sister kids. We all lived in two stories building. Top floor was hers, her husband and two daughters, middle was parents-in-law and my ex and me have a basement turned into a flat.
I was used as babysitter in times when I was out of work, and I took care of a two girls, one was 3 years old and other form her birth until she was 2, and her sister 5. Then I stated collect a fee and sister-in-law was very angry at that. Before she could ask me to stay with her kids and not pay, but my job give me little money, so I needed that to pay for my rent and shopping.
Few moths after I stopped babysitting I was coming back form work and I see sister-in-law kids running from the house to the street. It was late winter, no snow, but still cold, and they were only in t-shirts and tights. I called to them to come back home. Younger one turn around and run back inside, but older, little brat that she was jus... keep reading on reddit ➡
Sister: sis Brothers-in-law: bil Me
I am renting a room in their home and am paying the agreed amount of rent on time. Some info about my sis and bil. They recently had a baby and have another on the way. They are in financial problems because they are constantly updating the house. New flooring, new granite counters, added an addition, etc. additionally, they owe a ton of money to their credit card companies because they are huge spenders.
Now they need more money and are pressuring me to pay them more than the agreed amount. They can barely pay their mortgage and sometimes pay it late. Also they have been eating my food, using my supplies (toilet paper, soap,etc), I help with my niece and cleaning.
on top of everything I have been watching my niece for free for hours. We are all in the medical field. So 12 hour shifts, 3-5 days a week depending on the OT available. So when I watch my niece, I am watching her for 12+ hours, 3 days a week. I haven’t mentioned payment becuase we... keep reading on reddit ➡
A couple weeks ago, my sister-in-law ( my wife’s sister) had a huge fight with her husband. Well, he ended up leaving drunk in the middle of the night and drove 4 hours away to his brothers house, leaving behind her and their 2 year old. He spent the next couple of weeks telling her he wasn’t coming back, he had found another job, and that she would have to move for them to be together. My sister-in-law has all of her family here, and my in-laws have been amazing at spending time with my niece and watching her. Basically, her husband was forcing her to leave all of that behind, or be a single mother (come to find out he had messaging other girls while he was over there too).
Anyway, sister in law doesn’t move, husband is pissed off, and shows back up out of nowhere a couple of days ago. He says that we (as in me, my wife, and her side of the family) are banned from seeing their child, and that they will be moving away regardless of my sister in laws wishes. I expressed to my... keep reading on reddit ➡
Let me preface this by saying my husband comes from a very poor immigrant family. He has done well for himself here and has a wonderful job as an engineer. He sends his family roughly $500 a month and they have nothing to show for it.
My sister in law (19f) came to America because she is a citizen here and wanted to have her baby in the US so he could have citizenship here instead of Mexico where she lives. My husbands mom originally asked us to take her in so she could have the baby but I did not feel comfortable with this since I had recently found out I was pregnant and we only live in a 1 bd apt. So fast forward she goes to another relatives house and has the baby. Due to covid-19 she is not able to get the passport for the baby and is stuck in America until she gets the passport. I guess the other relatives got sick of her and wanted her out so she asked me personally and since she has a baby I did not want them on the street so I agreed to take her in.
Now she has been here for... keep reading on reddit ➡
Throw away account because my sister in law knows my main.
Let me first say my sister in law (25f) is truly an amazing person and has been like a real sister to me since I was 14. However, she loves to drink and sometimes goes a bit over board. She had small get together with 2 cousins her, my brother and I (22f). I show up with cousin 1 (23f) and my sister in law is already trashed. I go to hug her hello and she licks my neck. This made me extremely uncomfortable. The night continues on and she exposes her breasts and butt to me and cousin 1 while everyone was in the house and we were in the backyard. Cousin 1 and I get uncomfortable and move inside she follows with us. While inside she is continously hugging and touching me which makes me extremely uncomfortable and I indicate this many times verbally and physically by moving away. She comes from a touchy family and I definitely do not. As the night continues she insists cousin 1 and I look at freckle she has near her vagina. Cous... keep reading on reddit ➡
On a throwaway because I really don’t want this situation connected to my main account. I’ll also try to add a lot of details because my family is pretty split with this situation and we don’t know what to do.
My wife right now is currently 24. Her mom waited a while before having a second child, so my wife’s little sister is now 13.
My wife and I have always wanted a child, and we have decided to have one, MAYBE two. But most likely one. We talked about it and decided to adopt a baby in the future for two reasons. One, we want to give a baby a new home, and two, my wife has some fertility issues that won’t make producing a child impossible, but very difficult.
I’d like to point out that we were not planning on adopting a baby now, or in the near near future. We don’t feel financially stable enough and we still want time with each other without a kid for a little while longer. We thought about adopting in our early-mid 30s.
So a couple of weeks ago, my MIL started having multi... keep reading on reddit ➡
My overweight, body positive, accepts all people for who that are, radical feminist, socialist, sister in-law found my account and decided to tell everyone about it.
To her I’m Disgusting and unattractive. I have not just a small but a really tiny, pathetic dick. To her I’m a lowlife who needs attention..
Fuck it. I’m not sorry and I’m not deleting this profile. Funny how ms. Body positive, feminist attacks dick size and body size in men. On top of it all, it’s creepy she keeps sharing my profile.
It’s my first TTC cycle and I am currently on 9 or 10 DPO. Only a couple of hours ago, I found out my SIL is in labor, yay!! I am just at the beginning of my journey so I’m not sad by any means, but I’ve had two days in a row of BFN and don’t know when to give up. At what point is it pretty obvious I am not pregnant? Wouldn’t people start to get a faint positive on 10dpo? Thanks you for reading, I cross my fingers I receive advice one way or another haha.