Sex

My boyfriend and I was going to have sex with each other (it was supposed to be my first time but not his) Things started off normal, kissing. Then he started pushing me on the bed and holding me down, no foreplay or anything. I was obviously shocked and scared because I didn't expect that. I was screaming stop and no and he stopped. He looked confused and asked what was wrong. I told him like wtf, I thought we were gonna go slow. He was still giving me a confused looks and at that point, I was annoyed. I reminded him I was a virgin so I would prefer to take things slow. He said he knows that but he thought I'd like it rough. He also told me he's never been with a black girl before and he thought black girls like rough sex. I was mad and I said no, I'm not ok with rough sex and I was mad he used a stereotype on me. I didn't want to have sex anymore and I asked if he could just leave me alone so he left.

I'm just so confused like how is this even real. I've never even heard of that as

Our sex life has been pretty boring for the three years we’ve been married. We are both on our second marriage, I’m a widower and she’s divorced.

My late wife was very very adventurous and her first husband was vanilla missionary or nothing.

Over lunch yesterday we talked about sex and how it’s become mundane with her admitting that she’s only really ever felt comfortable with “ordinary” sex because that’s all she’s known. I suggested we get a book for her to read to get an idea of what she might like to try.

So we went into town to the bookshop and bought a book which she spent the next three hours reading in the bath.

Come bed time, 9pm unusually, I’m dragged to bed and set upon in very pleasurable way until about an hour in I feel fingers caressing my anus and perineum. Then a finger followed and to my surprise the one and only vibrator (a small one) we have was pushed inside of me. Much pleasure was had until my wife gasped and started to sound worried.

Behind me I fel

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I first want to thank everyone for all the advice I got from my original post, im sorry for not replying to any comments, (I think I only replied to one comment) my head was all over the place. I'll try to keep this update short.

As was suggested by many of the comments I decided to tell my husband first and proceed from there, my husband lost it(he first thaught it was a joke). We talked about the issue and we decided we should first talk to our son before telling my brother.

We confronted our son with what I saw, he already knew what was going on as he saw my reddit post and put 2 and 2 together, he didn't deny anything he confessed, he told us him and SIL have been having sex since February last year( he was 17 at the time). My son said it started on SIL's birthday party he attended they got drunk and had sex in a bat

Hi everyone. I'm sorry if this comes across as panicky or desperate but I don't know what to do and need some advice.

I have been seeing my boyfriend for three months. He is a really good guy overall but when it comes to sex related things he steps over the line way too much. Since our relationship began, he has been obsessed with my past relationships and past sexual encounters. Most of these happened when I was in high school. More than that, he is super obsessed about my relationship with my ex girlfriend. I am bisexual and he asks me a lot of graphic questions about what we did together.

I'm open and sexual so it doesn't bother me, but the line keeps getting pushed further and further back. When we're hooking up he'll ask me to tell him how much better he makes me feel than my ex. It is a big turn-on for him to be told that he's the best I've ever had and so I put up with it to make him happy. But two nights ago he pushed it even more and told me he wanted me to text my ex and te

Me and my husband have a pretty good sex life, but it's nothing crazy. We use toys, and props, etc, but we are not freaks or anything like that.

Today, I was in the kitchen, making breakfast, when my husband came behind me and started kissing me. I usually wake up before he does, and the case was such today. When we wake up at the same time, we usually cuddle or have sex before we get out of bed, but I woke up at 7 today and he usually never wakes up before 9, so I wrote for an hour or so, and then I did the dishes and I was in the process of making breakfast when he crept up behind me and started kissing my neck.

When we first started dating, he would have sex at the craziest places, so having sex in the kitchen was not that outrageous for us, and I decided to go with it. As we were making out, getting all hot and bothered, our dog started to come in between us. We tried to tell the dog to go away, but she wouldn't listen to us, jumping up (it's a 60 lbs husky) and getting in betwee

At age 40, success is having money.

At age 55, success is having sex.

At age 70, success is having a driver's license.

At age 75, success is having friends.

At age 80, success is not pooping your pants.

At age 100, success is being alive.

I have realized over the course of a very long relationship that my views of men have been slightly warped by stereotypes we see all the time. Some of them were kinda funny and a little sad but others actually caused real issues.

The biggest one for me was sex drive. We are pretty much told constantly that sex is all men think about so when my SO didn't jump me every five seconds I assumed it was because of me. Come to find out I just have a way higher sex drive than him. This also led to the fun realization that men really like it when you initiate. Another thing I just assumed they didn't like because I just assumed men wanted to be in charge. Needless to say, it hasn't been a problem since I got used to the idea I could jump him.

So, what things did you just think were true about everyone that you found out from experience was crap?

Edit: wow this really blew up. Thank you all for the responses and thank you for the award! Its my first one!

I'm a guy and my best friend is a girl, which back in college I even dated for a few months. Now, this is a girl that I consider my sister, we are pretty much family at this point.

This is a very good looking girl I'm talking about, way above average. And I know for a fact that plays a big role in people thinking I'm in the friendzone or that I'm "simping" or whatever.

A lot of people (especially men) can't seem to understand that I don't want to hook up with her. I have no interest in dating this woman, nor in even hooking up. But I get so much unsolicited advice on "how to behave to get with her" (which almost always involves being a dickhead). Legit had someone tell me I should give her bad advice so she would break up with her girlfriend so I could have a chance. What the fuck?

And don't even get me started on what some "friends" I had at the time said cause she's bi. When she found out she came to me for support, we had just started dating two months back, and I encouraged her

Made a throwaway and reposted since she has reddit.

Deployed in Korea. Wife cheated on me for 4 months. I have zero self confidence. Zero self esteem. The guy sent me a video of them having unprotected sex and a photo of them together. I’ve already went to BH for suicide.

How do I get over this. We are in the works of staying together. I return in 4 weeks. But I just fucking can’t.

Edit: I’m actually overwhelmed by the response. I honestly wasn’t even expecting 10 people to respond. Thank you all.

This situation isn’t easy for me, or for her. We are both young and naive. I spoke with the suicide hotline for a while today after I first saw the video. I deleted it and blocked the number. At the moment, my emotions are too high to make a decision. Part of me wants to stay and restart. I still love her. Part of me also wants nothing to do with her. I genuinely don’t know what will happen, but I hope to make my decision after seeing her in person. And I promise I’ll do what I feel is

Obligatory this happened about 5 hours ago but I seen the email 30 minutes ago while taking a shit and finally piecing the puzzle together. We have been waiting for our debit cards for 2 weeks. We started a new bank account and had all of our money go into it besides a little bit we get put on a pre pay card. Turns out this online bank does not send out your debit card until you make a deposit (hit a week ago). I am sure it said that somewhere so that is on us.

Anyway we have been spreading the money we had super thin, and we finally reached a point the we are going to try to Venmo or Paypal again. We tried them early in the week and it would not connect to the other card for some reason.

My wife get everything set up while I am playing PS4, hits transfer and sends a test 50 bucks, it worked! So this is were I come in, I said you should have sent more. So I take the phone from her and Send $225 on Venmo and jokingly write "Sex?" in the message. Error can not process this transacti

*good comprehensive sex ed should be mandatory

Some schools in the middle of America don’t do sex ed, or if they do, they make it super watered down. Ignorant, hyper-religious parents protest sex ed because they don’t like the idea of the children growing up or using birth control.

The fact of the matter is your kid is eventually going to find porn, no matter how hard you try. Seeing porn without knowing anything about sex is an absolute train wreck for your relationships. Girls will see themselves as objects. Boys will start to view girls as objects. Both will get unhealthy kinks and fetishes. Relationships will depend on sex. Children will be losing their virginity wayyyy too early, and they won’t have condoms because their sex ed class isn’t providing them, and they’re too scared of their toxic religious parents to buy/get them.

By boycotting sex ed, you’re risking that your child will have an unhealthy sex life. I haven’t seen someone provide an argument that isn’t “Jesus Jesus

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I (44F) walked in on my son (18M) having sex with my sister in law (34F)(brothers wife) in a cabin and I think they have been having sex for a while.

My brother(37M) moved in with us in February with his wife and 2 children, my husband(44M) and I have big house on a farm (my husband is a farmer) and with everyone working from home we thaught it would be a good chance to stay together as family and for my nieces to spend time on the farm. I have 3 children and all of them live with us the oldest is 18M and the other two are 16F and 13F.

On the day my brother arrived I went to buy groceries with my son and he went to the pharmacy to get his gym supplements and I baught the food. I saw condoms in my sons plastic bag when we arrived at the house two packs with 36 condoms each so 72 in total( didn't think anything of it thaught he had gotten a GF and wanted to be safe). Everything was fine every one got along my SIL and son would go on an early run around the farm

My husband and I have had a very trying sex life over the past few years. I chronically get horrible BV and yeast infections after we have sex... every time. I’ve been to see multiple OB/GYNs and they all recommend the same things (wash/clean beforehand, pee straight afterwards - both of which are awesome mood killers BTW, only wear cotton panties, low sugar diets, etc etc etc.) It’s gotten to be that I don’t ever want to have sex because I know what’s coming the next day and my husband feels like it’s his fault and that he’s “unclean”.

This past week was our anniversary and we went away for a few nights. I forgot to pack lube...and I miraculously didn’t get an infection for the first time in...6 years!?!? Came home this week, had sex and got a yeast infection and something suddenly clicked. A quick google search confirmed it. Most common lubricants (cough KY) contain glycerin which is basically sugar. HOW HAS NO DOCTOR EVER TOLD ME OR RECOMMENDED THIS!?!?

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When i was young my parents used to make a lot of jokes regarding my friend (which eventually led me to stop meeting with her not to give my parents an opportunity to joke about) . It made me really insecure about talking with them about girls. Even when i was already an adult there was a period when i didn't feel safe to talk with them about my relationships. When your child tells you about some friend of opposite sex don't assume anything. I hope my parents wanted to talk about my relationships as I was young instead of assuming and forcing jokes about it (Even on family gatherings, which was the worst).

Thanks for those of y’all that gave input it really helped.

I got a suggestion that I need to sit him down in close place and tell him I would not judge him for what he said. That’s what I did, we had went on a drive down the beach in our town, and when we parked to get out I told him that I needed to know why he cried when I gave him head. I’ve only seen him cry 4 times. He is always so strong and is usually the one comforting me, so I needed to know what someone was doing to him, or what I did to him to make him cry. When I asked he started crying again.

He told me that he never meant for me to feel bad. Essentially he’s not sure if he was sexually assaulted or he cheated on me. Last month he went to hangout with some of his boys. He said that one of his friends brought weed and the other brought a bunch of alcohol. My boyfriend got cross faded and he says he can remember most of the night but it’s all hazy. He said one guy invited a few of his girl friends and their little hangou

Someone will always inevitably ask "anyone up for some crucible" which basically means "you want to stay and cuddle"

I love the rush after beating a raid but man do I feel weird 2 minutes later as we're just lollygagging laps around the tower and I secretly just want to GTFO into my own tower session

So this happened yesterday. It was my boyfriend’s son’s 7th birthday. He planned a big family cookout etc. We have only been together about 3 months, and we are really happy. I have met his son and spent some time with him in group settings. But we are getting to the point where I’m around enough where it is going to be a conversation.

Anyways, it was like 4pm and we aren’t expecting his son to the house until 5:30p. His parents are over helping to set up the house for the party so we went upstairs to shower and get ready. Things start getting frisky out of the shower and we end up in bed.

Around 4:40p the bedroom door flies open. I am laying on the edge of the bed, both naked, with his face between my legs. I didn’t hear the door open, but the next thing I heard was “DADDY!?” in a small child’s voice and then his baby mama yell “REAL NICE, (insert name here)”.

We then proceeded to have the most awkward Spider-Man themed birthday party ever and my boyfriend had to explain “kissin

Ugh why do I always do this! If me and a guy are even kind of getting along It doesn’t take much to seduce me. Especially if he’s funny, and don’t let me have a beer 🤦‍♀️ Why am I like this!! I mean I don’t go on a ton of first dates maybe like 3 or 4 in the last two years.

The guy I saw this weekend was cool but I feel like now he’s not seeing me as much more than just a fun time.

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UPDATE Husband accuses me of having sex with adult son

First of all I want to thank all of you who offered such great advice, shared your own stories, and sent good vibes my way! Here are where things stand: • The EAP through my work has set me up with some counseling to start tomorrow • I am going to temporarily stay somewhere else (not our home) • I have told my husband that I will not consider returning until he gets therapy • I have opted out of couples therapy for now • I am not going to tell my son (or anyone, except therapist) about these allegations.
• I have a consultation with an attorney late this week I don’t know how this is all gonna turn out or what my future looks like yet, but I am not going to absorb his crazy anymore and that feels better already. My retirement may not be what I thought it was gonna be, but I am resilient and I trust all my needs will be met. Thanks again to all of you Reddit strangers!!! Gonna get outta this throw away account and get back t

Sparked by a conversation with a younger guy elsewhere on Reddit... I recently responded elsewhere to a younger poster who claimed to be a 15 year old guy who had recently lost his virginity (she was my first kiss, he said) to the 20 year old nanny of acquaintances of his. He'd mentioned that they'd been drinking (3 beers and 3 shots for our young protagonist) and she put the moves on him.

Multiple respondents pointed out to him that this is statutory rape. His general responses were along the lines of "I was statutorily raped, and I loved it." I tried suggesting, as someone with a pretty storied past of my own (I was sleeping with a 34 year old at 20. I was much more likely to offer a 20 year old cab fare home at 34 than to think about getting myself some action.) that his perspectives might shift as he gets older. He insists he's a legend.

Can we discuss the ways in which society conditions men to view their self-worth as directly tied to their ability to obtain sexual

This happened 37 years ago, but anyways guys today me and my girlfriend were literally doing the nasty lol ;) we were having amazing, hot sweaty sex. My (40M) girlfriends (68F) big titties were bouncing everywhere. She has huge badonkers. Like, HUGE. Did I mention her badingadonkers are two huge watermelons? Anyways, my big juicy ballls were clapping against her FUPA when all of the sudden my MOM! (😱🤮) walks in and screams, saying we “can’t do this here” and “this is your fathers funeral” and stupid shit like that, but we kept going. I stared my non-alpha female mom right in the eyes with my super-alpha male eyes and kept fuckin going. We went so hard I felt her piss on my big juicy eggplant (15 inch dick lol I know it’s small🥺) 5 fucking times. She was begging me to stop but I just kept going, and then she ripped right in half just like bacteria multiplying or whatever lol I didn’t take geometry so I don’t know all the scientific terms. My mother looked in amazement. She said I’m s

Putting this on this sub as that other sub removed a whole lot of comments and the mod called me a rapist. I chatted with the sex worker afterwards and while we both vague on details, she told me she work in the city five days a week and this was just a nice side gig. If you want to call me a rapist, okay, but please don’t block the 18 other opinions that might change my mind or potentially steer me in a better direction. Anyway:

It had been a month since she broke up with me, two weeks since I found out she was casually dating a guy and a day since my tinder date cancelled on me to see another guy.

I was horny. No amount of hobbies, exercise or wanking could substitute for what I needed. I didn’t need validation or an orgasm, I needed physical contact.

So I went online. It’s legal where I live but I still wanted to make sure I wasn’t stepping into a human traffic ring or drug den. Thank goodness for Google reviews and news articles.

I showered, shaved, brushed my teeth, combed m

Assuming it's a hookup with someone you don't know well enough to be sure of their sexual health, this would encourage more people to actually get themselves tested and identified, reduce the amount of people feigning ignorance of their conditions to hook up, and overall have a positive effect on public health. Someone doesn't cough up the papers? Probably should pass on em.

I get that it'd kinda kill the mood to ask the hot chick or guy for papers, but that's preferable to waking up with some kind of rash and burning sensation, right?

I've talked about it before with someone and they said it'd be an invasion of privacy but.. if you're trying to invade the privacy of someone's genitals you damn well better be safe.

I’m not talking about 15- year olds, by the way. I’m meaning late teens. So 16, 17, 18, 19. I have a 17 year old and people find it outrageous that I allow her to have sex in her room. My reasoning comes from the fact that when I was 17, I had sex in the car and got caught by the cops. My friends who had sex in public places would do it in the woods, in abandoned houses, etc. The risks of public sex is too much and I know majority of teenagers have to resort to it. However, I did not want this to be the case for my teen. I don’t have an issue with my daughter having safe sex at all as unpopular as that sounds. She works, she drives, she pays her own phone bill. In the end I guess it just all comes down to maturity.

A lot of people, especially on this site don't differentiate between rape and sex. They're the same thing in their eyes. Not going to lie it's mainly men.

There was a post I got really riled up over on relationship advice where the poor girl had been going to therapy and her partner had decided to ask what it was for after some time being together. She told him she was raped by her uncle when she was 8 and her boyfriend flipped his shit because he 'thought she was a virgin'. The comment section was disgusting, calling this girl a liar and saying she 'lost her virginity at 8 years old after having sex with her uncle.' She DID NOT have sex. She was raped. Sex is something that is given, not taken and you cannot have sex at 8 years old. These guys were all saying how badly the poor boyfriend had been treated, had been deceived by this girl. The double standards are astounding. Another post was from a girl who was upset that her boyfriend didn't tell her his dad was terminally ill, again

Some context, I was raped 9 months ago. The quarantine was honestly a blessing because I didn’t have to have an excuse to isolate and hide myself from the world. My close friends know it happened and I reported it to the police but I have no hopes of it going anywhere.

So about a month ago my close friend (D) and I decided to hang out with her boyfriend and one of our other friends (B). Social distancing and mask were involved. I’ve always liked B and he’s always been flirty but it was nothing more than that. Anyway after that hang out we started texting more often and being flirty and he told me he liked me. I was beyond happy to hear this because I’ve had a small crush on him for awhile.

Last night the four of us hang out again, he was very touchy feely (he knows I was sexually assaulted) and drinks were consumed (mostly wine and beer) and weed was smoked. I was fine, I was a little tipsy and crossed but I was fully aware of what was happening. B and I started making out in his c

It has been reported that the government paid out billions in taxpayer backed forgivable loans to the Catholic Church.

It has also been reported that millions went to dioceses that have paid out settlements of child sex abuse, and some of these diocese had even filed for bankruptcy protections because of the financial impact of the settlements and lawsuits.

Then the government just handed them billions....

The American taxpayer is now subsidizing payments to victims who were raped as children by catholic clergy.

Let that sink in.

The government is paying money to organizations that covered up child rape.

Why is it important to know what race or sex the person is?

The only thing important on the application is work history and any felony convictions.

You shouldn’t be hired based on race/sex just to fill a quota

You shouldn’t be turned down based on race/sex

Employers just need your name and work history before they decide to reach out and schedule an interview with you.

You know, as long as they’re legal.

Edit: If it’s legal for the both of you.

This is a genuine question. NOT trying to talk down to anyone here. As someone who is both asexual and autistic, I've felt like in recent years (I'm college age) most of my male friends' conversations have turned into sex talk, sex jokes, or anything else with sexual undertones and it makes me incredibly uncomfortable. I understand there must be an evolutionary aspect to it, but this sudden, completely transparent infatuation with genitals, genital size (or length, "girth", what have you), has been getting out of hand lately and it kinda makes me feel sub-human at times for not understanding it.

If it's not just straight up sex jokes, it's tying completely unrelated topics to getting laid or whatever. These are people who in years past I was able to have a deep conversation with about their hobbies, for example, and now those same hobbies, for some reason, are directly tied to their masculinity to them (whatever that means).

I understand sex is pleasurable in the sense that it relea

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around the 13:00 mark

> “From what I was told people are already working around it. You can’t have family but you can have a trainer or a massage therapist. So what I’ve been told is that there have been some pretty hot massage therapists come though. There’s a couple trainers who you know...their a backdoor is what I’m saying.”

I find it frustrating that even today you see things about how a woman having a hymen means she's a virgin. Or how it's "normal" for sex to hurt, especially the first time. No and no! If sex hurts, speak to a doctor. It shouldn't hurt, even the first time.

Gynecologist Jennifer Gunter explained this best (the sub won't let me link):

"The hymen is a left over collection of cells that typically partially occludes the vaginal opening. Many mammals have hymen. Humans, dogs, cats, camels, elephants etc. if this were for marriage/a social construct of virginity then other mammals would not have them.

The hymen is more rigid at birth and provides more covering for the first 3 years to keep urine and feces out of the infant vagina, which lacks estrogen so is very sensitive to irritants.

When most children become continent coincides with the time the hymen starts to take on different shapes and flexibility because evolution no longer cares.

Yes, the hymen is like baby teeth. It served a

Remember, this is the same media that covered Weinstein under a microscope tirelessly for over a year. Weinstein was small pennies compared to this and suddenly they have so little to say about explosive outrageous bombshell after bombshell. Just remember that next time you see a corporate pundit from cable news, politician or tech CEO sanctimoniously grand stand about morality whether it is concerning, BLM, women's rights or being pro-life. Don't let them fool you into thinking they care about morality at all when they're so quick to shrug off organized child rape. Their coy language and near silence is deafening.

Okay, as someone from Norway, I am asking a genuine question here.

Why are Americans so incredibly weird and invasive over their kids sex lives?

I read posts from older (Older referring to at the age of consent) teens having to get it on in the car or an abandoned building because their parents won’t allow them to have sex in their rooms. I’ve also read comments from parents who despise the idea of their kid even having sex at all.

It’s the strangest thing I have ever seen. I understand being scared of pregnancy but with birth control AND condoms, pregnancy is extremely EXTREMELY unlikely to happen. We promote safe sex here in Norway and teens have access to condoms in school.

In Norway, when you’re 16+, your parents allow you to take your partner in your room. Here we believe everyone has the right to privacy. Your room is your room. Everyone has access to condoms and contraceptives. Sex education is taught early on. We have one of the lowest teen pregnancy rates in the world wh

One of my (24F) male friends, I’ll call Jack (25M), is a bit of a lad and very good looking. Jack basically thinks that lad points are important, he’s always going on about how many girls he’s been with and how high is body count is. I lived with him in a house share for a while and whenever he bought a girl home, he’d make sure to parade her around by introducing her, spend 15-20mins in his room having sex, then come out and strut around naked or in his boxers..yes he really would. I remember saying a few times why are you out here, you have a beautiful girl in your room and you’re not in there with her?

This behaviour was pretty common for him and even though he was an almighty douche, we were still friends. Anyway after about 8 months of living together, after a drunken night, me and Jack ended up in bed together. Honestly it was terrible and having slept with him I realised something. Jack had a big dick (which I knew because of his strutting) but he thought that having a big dick

I was talking to this guy I matched on bumble for a week and I thought we had great sexual chemistry, he told me absolutely alllll the nice things a woman wants to hear.

And so I decided to invite him over, we started making out. I went down on him and he wouldn't go down on me which i didn't understand because he told me he eats pussy, AND ass.

Well, turns out he doesn't. In his exact sam words " If I told you I don't eat pussy, you wouldn't have any interest in having sex with me" to which I replied, "Fuck yeah I won't!"

If he was honest about it that wouldn have been okay, but I felt manipulated, so i kicked him out.

Edit: "Who doesn't eat pussy in 2020" removed, I apologize, I respect y'alls choices and I'm not shaming anyone.
This guy lied to get laid. I didn't kick him out just because he didn't go down on me.

I want to do a lot of specific sex stuff and my body being how it is now.... I just feel people will be more likely to engage in the the things I want when I have a more conventionally attractive body. I'll probably enjoy it more too.

I will continue to tell my friends, family and doctor that I'm just trying to be healthier.

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My parents both died when I was 23, therefore leaving me as the guardian of my older brother when is was quite young.

The reason he has a guardian is his developmental delays leaving him with the mentality of a child perhaps 10-12, though I don’t think you’re supposed to use mental age it’s the easiest way to get my point across.

My brother now 33 has been wanting to have sexual relations, and well as you can see by his mental age that’s not exactly something I’m comfortable with him doing. I’m not even sure that’s legal here for the other person involved. So I said no, but he’s been asking me about it, and his “urges” and it’s getting incredibly uncomfortable, his therapist is no help, the pandemic works as an excuse for now though.

I was discussing this with a friend (well more complaining about it) and she said I was a bad person for not allowing him to explore his sexual feelings if he wants to. But I still went with my aforementioned explanation above. But now in retrospect I’