AITA for calling the bride-to-be manipulative and awful after she treated us like servants and cash machines?

A childhood friend (32m) decided to get married this year and has been with his SO(33f) for a few years now.

He changed slowly: he stopped going to soccer practice and games, only spents time at work and home, stopped seeing his family and friends and all of us have been rather concerned about that.

We talked to him and asked if everything is alright but as he is "a man" talking about his feelings and his well-being seems forced and he normally just pushes our concerns away.

We tried to meet with her as well a few times, but we could hardly get to know her. In those 4 years even his parents only met her 3 times for less than an hour, because she is a busy person, she said.

Last year he suddenly announced that he wants to marry his SO. They have been together for only 3 years, with the occasional break up. After every break up he went back and alienated us more and more.

The bride asked us some weeks ago to contribute, emphasized on perfection, dedication and simply started to give out tasks, without us even agreeing on helping out. I literally received an email from her with my tasks to complete within a deadline one day without warning or knowing.

His relatives and friends talked this over and we agreed on helping but it all turned out to be terrible. The weeding is over the top, she expects the grooms family to pay for everything and even told us to chip in.

A few days ago it became ridiculously sad: i received calls from a carriage rental, a pidgeon guy and a bird rental (i didn't know this even exists) and they told me about the brides plan to have birds placed all over, some flying through the sky while she comes in with the horse carriage.

I told the grooms father about the expenses and he simply started laughing and said, that he won't pay a dime for this wedding anymore and that they agreed on a simple wedding, not a disney-movie set.

The grooms friends met for our weekly socializing and discussed what has happened, most of them being relieved and other just being happy.

Suddenly the bride came by, stormed in and accused us of sabotaging this marriage, the wedding and her life.

After a drama-class performance and lot's of screaming and pretend crying i told her, that not only has she been self-centered and inconsiderate but she's now nothing but manipulative and simply awful.

i lashed out a bit about her controlling behaviour regarding our groom friend and that all of this just became ridiculous.

She didn't say a word and simply went.

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Your favorite servants?

This has probably been asked before, but I joined the game about a year ago and I'm curious:

Who are your top 3 favorite servants? It could be gameplay wise, lore wise, or just asthetic, I'll start:

  1. Scathach: This was the first servant I fell in love with, when I started the game I added afriend with a Scathach on their support list and she was the reason I continued playing past the early slower parts of the game, she isn't my number 1 favorite servant but she's my most memorable.
  2. Space Ishtar
  3. Meltryllis
  4. Mordred

Honorable mentions: Mash, Sakamoto Ryouma, Chiyome, Tamamo no mae, and Okita alter (majin-san)

shhhhh no edits were made

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