Where can I find safe sex/sex ed resources?

I am an intern with a health promotion office on a college campus and we are giving a presentation over safe sex practices/sex ed resources to the LGBT+ Advocacy group on campus. I have been scouring the internet for the past few days and I haven't had much luck in finding anything. I was wondering if anyone had any resources, websites, etc. That you have seen or used to educate yourselves on this topic.

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Me [24 M] wonders how to ask about safe sex/ sex history with [23 F] partner

So I met this girl recently off a dating app and we hit it off super well. After a short "lets make sure neither of us is being catfished" date I quickly set up a second date to which she agreed to immediately.

2nd date got really hot towards the end of the night. We made out and did a lot of foreplay but did not have sex- mostly due to me forgetting my condoms.

3rd date is her coming over to my place for dinner and Netflix & chill session. (Yes I used those exact words and she hilariously agreed.)

Now I really like this girl, and from what I've seen so far wouldn't mind dating her. However I'm kind of paranoid about STD's after one of my best friends got herpes about a year ago. She hasn't given me any signs that she's anymore promiscuous than your average 20 something or anything like that, but I just remember all the high school bio lectures drilling the safe sex triage questions into my head.

I'm not cancelling our date and still am very attracted to her. I'm just wondering how do you ask someone about sexual past and if/when they've been tested without ruining the mood.

tl;dr: How do you ask if they've been tested w/o ruing the mood on a date that you know will lead to sex?

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CMV: Sex work should be legal, especially if a system is set up to make sure women are not exploited, they are safe from violence/disease

I think between prostitution not even going away (it’s been outlawed most of human history or heavily frowned upon and it’s still her). I think a system that protects women who WANT to do the work would be safer and healthier for women, and society at large with safe legal sex work. Women make money without violence and disease of the streets. Men get release without faking love to a women or got forbid force someone (heard scary stories from prostitutes in documentaries bitten after a hook up and not pod). And society has the lent up frustration of single restless men released and taxed for money too. Change my mind that a well set up legal sex work system wouldn’t be in the interest of women, men and society at large!

Edit: you can switch the genders, too! I think men doing sex work also should be legal and same sex sex work shouldn’t be outlawed either. So sex workers can be men women or other. And the person using the service can be any gender, too! More thought provoking than the typical women selling men buying. Though that’s the most common

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If we had a society where women always felt safe around men, we'd all be having more sex and everybody would be happier

Imagine it. If women always felt safe in bars and clubs.... Felt safe to approach a handsome guy and strike up a conversation.... Or to go on a Tinder date... were not worried about getting grabbed and groped or having their drink spiked.... We'd all be having more sex. We'd all be happier - women AND men. If women felt they could be honest and forthcoming about their sexual desires instead of having to pretend they don't want it as much as men do (because we do). Imagine.

I(F) just want to live in a world where I don't need to have my guard up against men. I just want to feel safe to be an openly sexual person without being shamed, assaulted or abused for it.

And no - this is not an attack against all men. Most men are fine. The bad ones ruin it for everybody else. We end up with women who are scared of men. Then the good men are too scared to approach women because they don't want to be labeled mysoginist. If we could all feel safe to approach one another respectfully and have honest conversations with one another the world would be a much better place.

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My date was annoyed / upset / defensive during a conversation we had over safe sex

The new man I'm dating were discussing sex over drinks today. I mentioned I'm not on any contraception. The pill made me emotionally volatile and took me to some pretty dark places. The implant is also bad with my moods, plus one of my friends became pregnant again despite the implant; and the coil is super painful. For me, I avoid pregnancy and practice safe sex by asking my partners to wear condoms. I've never been pregnant ever, even after I got off the pill, so clearly it does the damn job.

I told him what my preferred method is, and when he asked how we might expect to practice safe sex, I said via condom use. Alternatively, one can get a vasectomy which can always be reversed. Not too different to a woman having a coil implanted, right?

He got pretty upset at this. He crossed his arms and legs, the smile disappeared. He said this is something he feels very seriously about, as well as some of his male friends. Apparently condoms are temporary measures, used for casual sex. When it comes to a woman you want to date seriously, in order to feel super intimate and close with her, apparently unprotected sex is a big part of that (following sexual health tests). It becomes uncomfortable so I say I'm joking and change the subject.

I feel this is a red flag that my preference is reacted to like this. But what are your thoughts?

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ok but does ur school have free flavored condoms and lube?? practice safe sex kids :D
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1990's. A "safe sex" advertisement by Ministry of Health and the HEAL programme.
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Anon advocates safe sex.
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Sex after covid vaccination. My question. My partner believes i can possibly pass something on to him because i was vaccinated. Wont do oral with me and wants to practice safe sex.

I have been vacinated. My partner wont have oral sex sex with me anymore and wants to practice safe sex. Can i possibly pass anything to him from the vaccine. I dont velieve so but he thinks its possible. Facts please!

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A "safe sex" advertisement by Ministry of Health to combat AIDS. Malaysia, 1990's
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Sex Pistols concert, 1977. People at rock concerts seem to actually know a little something about staying safe, having fun, and taking care of each other
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My mom punishes my nearly adult brother for practicing safe sex then acts surprised when I tell her he plans on leaving at 18 πŸ™„ reddit.com/gallery/qfy7k5
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Safe sex in the Imperium of Mankind!

I would like to apologize in advance if this is inappropriate or not allowed in this forum. If it's not ok for this forum please let me know and point me in the direction of where I should use this post. Also if this isn't a new or original concept let me know. I was thinking of the subject in the title of the post, safe sex in the imperium of mankind, and wondering how or if people ensure there safety in their sexual encounters in the 42nd millennium?! While pondering this question I came up with what I think is a great opportunity for games workshop to make a bunch of money. Warhammer 40k condoms, the brand name? The Emperor. Because of course as we all know, The Emperor protects!

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Your favorite ways to approach safe sex counseling and substance abuse counseling in adolescents during physical exams?

Do you just throw in a little blurb in there with every adolescent patient that you see about using condoms, warning them about substance abuse, etc.? Or do you ask whether there are concerns about that that they want to bring up during their visit and address each individual thing as needed? Do you have parents/patients fill out a form prior to walking in the visit that has a little questions whether they want to discuss these topics during that day's visit?

I've brought up these topics without discussing it with parents prior to the visit and I have received mixed reactions. Just wondering how others go about it and whether there is a more tactful/individualized way of approaching it.

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Was over my girlfriends friend house and her boyfriend said I could have these little friends! Is this safe and should I get a bigger tank? Please help! I don’t know the sex of either
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Condoms don't guarantee safe sex anymore....

My friend was wearing one and got shot by the woman's husband.

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Need advice: How to have safe sex with a negative person

I (f28) got HSV2 on Valentine's day last year, very romantic I know (unrelated yes, slightly comical, also yes). I want to wait a full year till I start having sex again and safe sex measures are already on my mind since I'm seeing someone romantically that I do want to have safe sex with in the future.

I'm already on antivirals, I'd definitely use a condom and get my partner to get a HSV1-HSV2 test done before hand.

But are there other methods like crotch less panties and my male partner wearing boxers during the act? Has anyone tried this method before?

If so can you tell me a bit about your experience with it and if it made you more conformable knowing your protecting your partern. And maybe the brands of crotchless underwear if any ladies have tried any.

I do not want to give anyone HSV. I wouldn't be able to live with myself knowing I gave it to someone, especially if I don't end up with that person forever.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. You can even tell me to calm down if needed haha. Cheers

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Question for married men if you wife said I'll have sex with you everyday just make me feel safe and loved what would you say ?

This something I battle with daily . I have constantly told my husband over and over again make me feel loved and not like a sex toy once in while ok not all the time . Make me feel safe in your arms . I'll do anything toy want . Show me your into me and not just out to sanctify yourself. Have any of you struggled with this in your marriage . We have sex 4 times a week . I have a 5 year who of course is noisy body and it's never enough it's always what makes him happy and never takes special time out to make me happy . The he gets upset if I say not tonight . I'm tired of being a fuck toy some women like it that's okay I don't. I want affection to kissed loved nor just treated like a girl in one of his porn movies. I'm not trying to bash my husband by no means but I'm exhausted trying to always make him happy so he won't cheat and feel empty and lonely afterwards. Should I feel this way or is it some back set emotions I'm not facing due to him cheating. I've changed everything about myself we go to the sex store 3 times a week when use to be to embarrass to enter and it never seems good enough .

He wants all these things from me try new stuff all I want is to feel loved and feel like he is into me not just for sex but into me as a person.

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"Abstinence only" sex ed actually leads to more teenage pregnancies than those who were taught about safe sex.
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Safe sex in steamy scenes

I feel so foolish even starting this conversation, but I genuinely want to know why almost all authors don’t go through a sex scene without using condoms or mentioning that they’re clean. I mean, personally in real life I abide by these safe sex practices and fully support them.. but when I’m reading a book, I truly don’t care and even feel like it maybe ruins it for me?

Maybe it has something to do with how you place a deep trust on someone when you go bare, but I genuinely don’t understand why every single book does this. Because if it’s for morals, then that just doesn’t make sense to me since most heroes have some morally grey attitudes and can be extremely toxic. Yet they worry about wrapping the willy.

Can someone enlighten me? And yes I’m aware this is a slightly dumb thing to be irked by. Let’s just talk. Looking forward to reading responses.

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Boundaries and safe sex help

Hi- I am having an issue with a situation and want advice please.

I am very conflict averse, so I have had difficulty bringing this up with my partner.

He is married, to a cis woman; I am a cis woman with 2 other partners. Our β€˜rules’ include using barriers for PIV sex; however a few weeks ago we broke that rule twice. I was concerned about that and brought it up; although he acknowledged my concern, he made some comments about β€˜This is just between us.

I felt that the crossing of the barrier was an obvious issue, but I’m much more concerned about his reaction. I’m not comfortable with exposing his wife to a risk she didn’t agree to, and am uncomfortable with the response because he didn’t seem to understand the gravity of the situation.

So I have two issues: A. I am feeling unsure who bears the responsibility for the condom use; obviously it’s both partners, but I’m still feeling upset that he crossed that boundary even though I was ok with it in the heat of the moment. B. How do I police a partner’s ethics? If I’m not ok with how this went down, is it recoverable?

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Is Bathtub sex safe?

I am in a happy 7 year - relationship with my girlfriend (soon-to-be wife, 6 months from now). I have a concern, however. Is it safe to, you know, do it in the bathtub? I have to mention that it's our bathtub which we clean ourselves. I heard people saying that it might be dangerous for her due to several bacteria which might infect the "baby factory".

Now, the problem is that she might be sensitive in that area. Long story short, she had to take a hormonal treatment when she was 17, as far as I remember, and 2 years later she developed an ovarian cyst. I stayed with her in hospital (to help her if she needed anything) and it was pretty bad (the post-surgery recovery I mean).

I am slightly concerned since I don't want anything to happen to her, but at the same time, we have both wanted to do it for quite a while now. My question is: Considering her medical history and the fact that the tub in question is ours, which is cleaned regularly, does having sex in it pose any danger to my wife's health?

Thanks a lot! Stay safe!

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How can I assure my partner that tying me on a sex toy is safe?

I have a remote control kink so I purchased a Motorbunny hoping my SO would tie me up and give me a good time. Well, I asked my SO to tie me to the machine and control it, but he refused because he didn't want me to get hurt.

For some context, he's aware and willing to try some of my kinks but this is the first time he'll try something a bit more intense than the usual.

How can I assure him that this is 101% safe? I thought of showing him videos of other women riding it but I'm not sure if that will turn him on.

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Ways to improve safe sex?

I am 15 and for a while have actively engaged in sex with a girl I have been seeing for a good while, she is on the "pill" but insists I don't wear a condom which I don't really agree with, it's always in the back of my head that it's a bad thing to not have it, is there anything I can tell her or should I just stop all other, tia, yes I know it probably isn't responsible but is just like to make it safe

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Abstinence as the only safe sex is most taught by people who firmly believe it is not 100% effective
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Someone had safe sex 20 feet away from my rooftop plant reddit.com/gallery/pw1797
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If sex induces labor, then why do doctors say it’s safe to have during pregnancy?

Like everyone even doctors say β€œhave a bunch of sex to induce labor”. Yet my doctor also said I can have sex during my entire pregnancy. I’m only 27 weeks right now but I get nervous when I do have sex because I’m scared I’ll induce labor.

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How can I teach my guitars safe sex? I dont want them to get pregnant... what if they get a telecaster?????
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Is it safe to have oral sex?

So most of my life I’ve been terrified of STDs, even though sometimes falling to my urges. Recently I’ve been wanting to get oral (I’m a man) thinking that it’s safe, but now I see that you can get 10000 STDs from oral and how 2/3 people have herpes and genital warts and stuff. Using a condom is a no because like… come on what’s the point. Is my living in fear justified or should I just relax?

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Safe casual sex

I’m a 38(f), single and not dating anyone seriously right now. I had my heart broken last year, and that combined with the pandemic led me to not date or meet up with anyone until about 6 weeks ago.

My issue is that I’m having difficulty finding partners who practice safe sex - not just with me when I’m hypervigilant and enforce it, but also someone who is safe and mitigating risks with other partners as well. Ideally, I’d like a couple/few consistent partners who are safe with ALL their partners.

I’ve done a full STI panel this year, but have already been exposed to a man with gonorrhea/chlamydia (we used a condom 100% of the time). I’m awaiting test results, but trying to figure out if this is just the nature of casual sex, or are there also men who are safe with casual sex? It’s exhausting being the one to always enforce condom usage, and to be made to feel like I’m forcing men to do something that feels horrible for them.

Because of my age, 4 doctors have been reluctant to give me Gardisil, but I’m going this afternoon to CVS to see if they will do it by request.

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Safe sex and testing rules

I’m 30yo bisexual M in ENM marriage, which is still very new. I’m conscious of mitigating as much STI risk as possible for my spouse, and curious what others may do?

I’m on PrEP, been chatting with a guy who’s the same, I got the HPV vaccine, and I plan to use condoms for penetrative sex. I’ve also considered full abstinence with my wife until I can confirm via an STI screen that I didn’t pick anything up. In some ways it feels a little extreme but I also think you can’t be too careful.

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Safe sex disagreementsβ€” is there a middle ground/am I overbearing?

Update edit: I wanted to say I read everything and I don’t think I’m crazy anymore.

I had an appointment with my therapist yesterday and she said he’s showing narcissistic characteristics.

I am scared to break up. I know I look really stupid right now. I don’t think people who have STIs are dirty and I don’t want people to feel shamed for having them. His β€œdirty whores” comment really bothered me and looking through here the comment he made about us never breaking up if he gives me herpes and aids is really toxic.

I don’t want to break up but the only thing I’m getting out of this arrangement is having him and he claims he’ll be nicer to me if he’s able to do whatever he wants without me questioning him. Why couldn’t he treat me nicely before? The non monogamy isn’t the issue for the break up to me it’s the fact he’s withheld affection, purposely treated me shitty, and all around has been demeaning to me for months under the claim that β€œhe will only be happy if he can have sex with others when and how he wants”.

I’m at my breaking point. I’ve been without a car for several weeks as it been in three mechanics shop. I’ve had to rely on him for his second vehicle while mine is being fixed and he holds it over my head. I’m sorry to unload but I’m so sick and so sad.

I ordered female condoms for myself to take the β€œcondoms don’t fit I hate them” excuse away and if he doesn’t want to use them with me I am done. I’ll take my child and live with my sibling if I really have to. I can’t worry myself to death and cry everyday anymore. No one WANTS to catch an STI but he can at minimum respect my desire to use a condom or he can break up with me. I sent him CDC information on all the STIs last night and our city is #4 for having the most STIs in the country. He just told me to go to sleep. I feel defeated and done. I’m sorry to ramble

TLDR; opening up, fiancΓ© doesn’t use protection or get tested and I feel it’s important. Would like resources to help calm my mind or information to share with him

My fiancΓ© [30s M] and I [20s F] of 3 years are taking the time to talk about what we’d like our non monogamy to look like.

Almost everything is able to be compromised except for one thing: safe sex

I am pretty mono and won’t be pursuing any outside sex or relationships. He’s open to casual sex and not counting out the possibility of relationships if it happens.

He has flat out said he will not be using condoms with anyone he has sex with. He hates them and

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The OP in /r/Conspiracy wants to know if it's safe to have sex with her vaccinated boyfriend. Commenters argue about patent law and the "new world order." reddit.com/r/conspiracy/c…
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So... Regular birth control (not 100% effective) and safe sex then?
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We tolerate unrealistic plots, sex scenes and action sequences. But we have to have real, functioning guns, rather than almost-accurate, but completely safe fake ones.
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For These Buddhist Monks, Sex Ed Starts With Safe Masturbation vice.com/en/article/v7d4a…
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82 year old raps about safe sex. youtube.com/watch?v=ZKsfv…
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