Pleasure

So I live in Germany where the government is planning to give everyone who is eligible of child support 300 additional euros over the course of 3 months due to the disadvantages of the corona crisis still going on. I already have my own flat and I study so I am still able to receive payment. For some reason though, my money always gets send to my mother's bank account and she sends it to me. It has worked out so far but she usually sends me 10 euros less than what I am supposed to receive. I never cared too much because I don't want to bitch about 10 bucks.So I gave my mom a call and asked her if she saw the news and reminded her to send me the money which would be 100 additionally each month for 3 months altogether. She suddenly said "Well, I will take 150 of them, we both deserve it, don't we?" I was shocked and asked her what she intends to spend it on. "I could finally go on some short trips and buy expensive food" was her response.Just a short note: My mother has been jobless ever

I feel like there needs to be more discussion about the gap between the importance of women and men's pleasure. I see it everywhere. The idea that a men's pleasure is more important than a woman's is bloody ridiculous. I'm not saying womans sexual pleasure is more important, I think both are equal, but god forbid a man doesn't cum but if a woman doesn't its fine? What kind of precedent is this still teaching young women? That they should be satisfied either way?

Please share thoughts and feelings k thnx

If not why?

A quote that really stuck with me today. I've been acting weak recently, giving in to my pleasures without a second thought. As much as I would like to blame it all on the quarantine, I must take responsibility for my actions. After all, realizing what you did wrong is the first step to fixing it.

I, as many of you do, experience severe back pain. But instead of requesting a massage from my boyfriend I’ll ask him to relieve me of my pain in a different way.

I take my bra off and he’ll stand directly behind me with his hands open and he lets my boobs sit on them like a shelf at the height they would be at if gravity didn’t exist (or at whatever height allows him to hold the weight of them entirely).

Let me tell you it is LIBERATING. It’s what it must feel like to be a man and have nothing weighing you down. Instantly my posture improves. I feel lighter. My back feels better. It’s amazing. Too bad it’s only temporary.

Highly recommend trying this with your partner (mine definitely doesn’t hate it either).

Also does anyone else do this???

Edit: typo

Young age doesn't change anything about it. It's not an excuse for boys either.
If she pretends like it's an accident, or if she does it during a playfight, or during MMA sparring, or soccer, or to her brother, cousin, "friend", none of these things change anything either.
People like that are scum and deserve a punch in the face.
It's not funny or cute or lighthearted, it's nothing to laugh about in hindsight, and any girl/woman who did that at some point in her life should be deeply ashamed and know that she deserved a hard punch in the face at the time.
And that's being generous. She did something way more painful, personal, humiliating, violating, disrespectful and gendered.

Also, I only "single out" girls, not because they're somehow worse, or more violent, or bigger assholes - they absolutely aren't. But they are the only ones who get a free pass for some fucked up reason.

Also, if it's done in the way and for the reasons I described, it is sexual violence. I can

Post-Cassie Colton can get it 😏

Honest answers only, I’m predicting there will be a few reality steves

ETA: GUYS cut me some slack I can def see Colton is a controversial pick with the downvotes I’m getting but this is a guilty pleasure thread 😂😂 also not saying I would date the guy, just think he’s pretty cute in the recent pics I’ve seen since his breakup with the scruff and all. Let me liveee

FUCK From Software dogs, they're assholes who deserve to be killed.

I struggle with depression and I often rely on pleasure to make the pain go away for a moment. I drink every other week, I drink at least two cups of coffee everyday, I'm addicted to porn and sexual pleasures and I also sometimes misuse zopiclone (a sleeping pill which is also a strong sedative). I don't even enjoy them anymore, but I feel like I need them.

I have been trying to practise stoicism for a few months and I'm slowly starting to realise just how much I seek pleasure, and as you people know, being dependant on externals is never too healthy.

So I'm going to challenge myself to live without these as long as I can. Sure, it might be just a week, but I really want to give it my best shot.

Motivation for me and you

My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years. He used to push me to my limits sexually and we’d explore. Suddenly, he stopped...I’ve brought up the fact that I’m not happy sexually and it’s an awkward conversation to have over and over but I’ve done it. He always says that it’s going to get better and it does momentarily and then it’s right back to the same. When it does “get better” he makes comments like “I don’t want to right now, because then we have to take care of you.” But he’s perfectly fine getting head and going to sleep. Or when the focus is “on me” it’s a flick of my nipple while I take care of myself. I’ve made suggestions while watching porn together of things I like or find hot...I get nothing. I admit... I'm more of a pleaser in bed but that doesn't mean I don't have needs.

I don’t know what to do... I’m out of ideas.

EDIT: I know that there hasn't been a ton of responses, but those of you that have... Thank You! This issue has caused me to feel kinda alone

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