I am assuming we all have a pretty good idea of the type of people they like to be around and the people they can’t stand.
If you knew them, would you be invited as a guest to one of their parties, not invited at all, or would you be the one holding a freaking serving spoon?
If you were being considered for an invitation, would either of them blackball you? If so, which brother is considering you, and which is doing the blackballing?
For me, I think I would be holding a serving spoon.