We've been married for almost 2 years now. My wife works as a flight attendant and is often doing long journeys to other countries. Her work has not slowed down during the covid quarantine as I thought it would so she is constantly working and has been tested negative several times now.
Our anniversary was last week and she was not going to be home for it so I decided to give her a surprise card and one of a few gifts, but I was going to bury it in her luggage suitcase before she was about to leave. That is when I found new looking white lace lingerie that I have never seen before, as well as a pair of heels that I do know of because I got them for her. As soon as I saw it there was ringing in my ears and it felt like the world had come to a halt. I have been trying to come up with reasonable explanations as to why she would have it, but none of them are in character for her as far as I am aware. That's why now I am fearing the worst, infidelity. She doesn't know I saw it because I d... keep reading on reddit ➡
My birthday was last week, and yesterday a package arrived at my door, and it was lingerie. It had a note in it that said happy birthday ~friend. I have never mentioned wanting lingerie to him. I haven’t talked about underwear or sex at all with him. I just play video games and D&D with him. I thought it was weird as hell and kind of creepy to order me lingerie. If my husband got me lingerie, okay a little self serving but I wouldn’t mind that much. A friend? Weird.
Anyway I messaged him that it was weird and I would appreciate if he didn’t do anything like that in the future, and he got all defensive and started saying stuff about how he thought I would like it and that he put a lot of effort into it. I told him I would prefer nothing over this kind of gift, so in the future just get me something generic if he wants to get me a present. He blew up at me and blocked me.
I’ve known the guy 10 years, he’s never made a pass at me, always been a pretty normal guy, was I too harsh her... keep reading on reddit ➡
Apparently, Shatner panties wasn’t the best choice for a name.
The closest lingerie store that carries my size is approx. an hour and 15 minutes away from where I live. I went out today and bought more w/ a fitting from them. They fit wonderfully!
As we were trying them on I asked her what my size was, for future reference . She informed me she couldn’t say, as it’s based solely off of visual measurements and in person fittings. Eh, makes sense. I asked her to estimate and she repeated her answer. No worries, I’ll look at the tags when I get home.
I look at the bras when I get home to see that all of them have had the sizing (which would have been printed on it by the manufacturing company) removed off of the tags. I look at my receipt and the lingerie store has begun using their own sizing to categorize their bras.
I was incredibly peeved about this. I get why they do it, they want repeat business. But feeling like information about me is being withheld by them certainly doesn’t make me want to go back.
Any of you have expe... keep reading on reddit ➡
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So I like to wear lingerie. Nothing crazy, just lacy bra and panties/thongs sets (like this: https://www.fashionnova.com/products/secret-sexy-lace-bra-and-panty-set-white) and sometimes teddies (like this: https://www.fashionnova.com/products/forever-your-crush-lace-teddy-neon-pink.)
I don’t think these are crazy grown or whorish or promiscuous, they’re just cute underwear to me.
I buy my underwear with my own money but my mom likes to go in my room and go through my drawers and throw out any underwear she doesn’t approve of. Then she replaces them with the cotton underwear and bras from Walmart.
My parents’ reasoning for this is that no one is going to see my underwear so I shouldn’t care about how they look. But I don’t wear it for other people, I wear it because it’s cute!
They also don’t like me doing my makeup or dressing up because they think I’m only doing it to get the attention of boys. I get extremely nervous around boys I like. It’s like a shaking, can’... keep reading on reddit ➡
Bare with me because this has a bit of backstory.
So this all started because I bought my gf some new lingerie because she's sexy af, our sex life is incredible and I love her very much. Random present. Anyway it arrived and she LOVED it, she wore it for like 2 days straight! It's a beautiful peice, floor length and apart from a strap around the midriff it's completely see through. I was at work when she sent me some shots of her in the lingerie, and I told her she looked AMAZING. But I also said as a joke 'just don't post it onto Instagram tho haha' Turns out she already had..
BACKSTORY - first of all she's a singer songwriter, she's always trying to blow up her music career into the big leagues, it's her dream. Anyway before me and her were together she used to hang around this guy alot who's a music producer, let's call him... Douchebag. Anyway douchebag lives far away from here so she used to go to his 'studio' (bedroom) in his flat and stay their for a few days and sleep in hi... keep reading on reddit ➡
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Hey ladies! I'm 5'1 98lbs and pear shaped. Have a butt, barely any boobs though. Are there any stores you ladies like to shop at for lingerie that isn't Victoria secret? Im trying to veere away from them as their quality isn't always the best...and lately there aren't much uniqueness to the selection :(
It's just something about it that makes it feel so differently.. so naughty. From personal experience and even from movies.. there's just an attractiveness to the whole dynamic which is added.
Hello, I want to avoid fast fashion brands at all costs (shein for example) I’m a small figured woman with a large chest (8F for anyone knowing Aus sizes) so I need a fairly accomodating store with really good quality/beautiful pieces preferably not really expensive though.
Thanks in advance, Op.
I struggle to find BDSM wear and lingerie sites that make bras in my cup/band size. Any sites folks are partial to that do a good job making bras and BDSM wear for large boobs and smaller band sizes?
I'm a 34DDD and this seems to be on the edge of what most manufacturers won't produce. Also, bras that are marked s,m,l,xl never fit right. So places that construct bras with cup band sizes are best. I'm sure there are other folks with a large cup band ratio that aren't my size who would also benefit from friendly retailers.
While sitting on a counter top, someone standing near me said “Someone’s ass smells like flowers” and everyone in the room laughed so I immediately got embarrassed and I don’t know if that’s a good or bad thing. What’s your two cents on this?
I have spend hours going through dozens of lingerie sites in the hopes of finding something that isn’t designed full of straps and super restrictive fabrics. I really really like this set, but I can’t seem to find anything similar. Anyone have recommendations for a brand that makes a similar style?
I’ve just started my collection and I have about 10 sets. The way I organise them now is I fold the bra in half like a book and put the panties in between the bra to keep the set together. However as I get more sets, it’s getting a lot less organised. I only have a pull out drawer to keep them in, so wouldn’t be able to put them in a separate box/chest but was thinking about dividers or something similar? I was wondering how you guys organise your sets and if you use any containers or organisers.
Guys, I found out a few lingerie subscription boxes and it seems an interesting idea to try new lingerie every month. If you have positive experience with it, can you recommend good websites please?
I would like to know about the following ones:
If you know other nice lingerie subscription services don’t hesitate to share!
Hello! I was wondering if there are any companies that make lingerie for men. I have a bought a couple of pairs of underwear that I really enjoy and find really sexy (here is an example, NFSW). But the problem is that I can find that many companies that offer something similar. It seems like the male sexy underwear are have a fetish target (latex or crossdressing) which isn't really what I am into. Any recommendations would be great! Especially for stores within the EU.
I bought a matching bra and panties with garter set and got a pair of fishnet tights to go along w them and I tried them on and while I think it looks good, I'm feeling incredibly silly and I COMPLETELY!! support sex workers however I kinda feel like i look like one and I dont think it matches my personality cuz I'm pretty shy and submissive. My bf has never seen me in fancy underwear before and I know he likes fishnets from a conversation we had when we first started dating. I wanted to wear this and surprise him when I see him next but now I'm worried he wont be attracted to me in it and he might find it funny:/
So my question is, (mostly directed at men but I would love to hear from ladies too) would ur partner surprising u with lingerie make u happy? would it be sexy or a turn on? i just want to please my man lol
So, I've always wanted to have a collection of lingerie. I'm getting healthier and more toned, so no time like the present to start investing! My main issue is where to start because there are SO many options!
For starters, there are a lot of styles and I'm not sure what would look best on my body. I'm 5'2" and somewhere between chubby and curvy with very wide hips and thighs. My measurements are 39" bust, 32" waist, and 45" hips, so I'm a pear shape with a bit of extra tummy (size 10 jeans). I think I'd feel more confident in something that covers my stomach, and it would be nice to flatter and accentuate my ass because I have a LOT of it. Does anyone with a similar body type have suggestions as to what might look best? I will probably be ordering affordable options online for the near future.
Also, this might sound like a silly question but... what exactly do people do with lingerie? I'm early in the dating stage with someone right now, and if things get sexual it would be fun to b... keep reading on reddit ➡