If you try to convince others you're good with women, you will then need women in your life for your identity and self-esteem. This has the negative effect of making you more dependent on women.
Women unconsciously sense you need them, and they lose interest in you.
But if you're humble and don't talk about how good you are with women, and don't have your identity and self-esteem dependent on whether women like you, it makes you less needy and you get better results.
This was one reason the PUA movement failed. Those men needed women to like them to validate their identity, and this desperation made things a lot harder for them.
Find something else for your identity, like focusing on your career, hobby, etc. Or improve your self-esteem so you don't feel you have to impress others. But never use women to get others to respect you.
Who are you?
My name is Kozunak Ozuwara and for the past two years my hobby inside my hobby was hunting and annoying totally legit players who enjoy perfect reactions and impeccable intel but for some reason fall for the same traps over and over again. I will call them bots from now on because it's shorter and I like how it sounds. During these years I caught and killed 20+ carriers, 50+ battleships and 500+ VNIs, Ishtars, Gilas and Myrmidons with frigates/cruisers/dreads almost exclusively solo.
How to find these targets?
In this post I will focus on carriers but the principles are basically the same for subcaps. After blackout and the carrier nerfs they are a lot more rare overall but they are still out there, you just have to work a bit harder to find them.
Six signs that krabbing carrier you found in that dead end system might be a bot.
1.New character made in the last month or two.
2.Almost no killboard activity, maybe lost an ishtar or a gila while learning the cap skills if not injected. 99% red killboard.
3.Warps to a small POS without guns or a safe at a citadel (often times without a fort in system) every time you enter local and even before you scan him down.
4.Does not talk or accept fleet. (Some do but they die very quickly and don't come back)
5.Usually in a Chinese or Russian renter alliance. (There are exceptions of course)
6.Usually in northern Frat controlled space or the southern swamps (Period Basis, Paragon Soul, Feythabolis and Omist)
I think I found one, now what?
For the purpose of this post I will give as an example this legit player:1. When I found him he was krabbing from a POS, was not accepting my fleet invites (grr) and was the cheap version that warps to the same Haven at constant time intervals (7 minutes) until the site is done (yummy). I will also assume that you don't have a ceptor/dictor alt and want to do it solo.
1: Enter local and try to Dscan what site he is in. If you are too slow and miss it you can check for wrecks... keep reading on reddit ➡
Some people will say that the monarchy, specially the queen, brings so much tourism but I call that BULLSHIT. If I go to England I don’t want to go just because I want to catch a glimpse of these assholes who don’t do shit in their everyday life. The history of their ancestors truly is remarkable. In those times the kings and queens actually DID something for their people unlike these assholes who just sit pretty all day long with a fucking but load of servants and a fucking but load of money (Maybe that’s why the queen is blocking the release of her wealth numbers because it would be “embarrassing”). They are like the modern Paris Hilton but of England. Nothing but trust fund babies.
Regarding tourism: Yeah, I would like to see the castles and the history of them but even then they are closed to the public because these rich trust fund babies currently live in them. So thats impossible.
And the Queen...She is just truly overrated. All she does is have a symbolic role in her country and nothing else. She doesn’t do shit but do public speeches who she herself obviously doesn’t write every now and then. What other things has she done, visit places? Even the history channel’s “Key Moment’s in her reign” are fucking comical. She hasn’t done shit. One of the most memorable moments per history is that she withstood the so called 'Annus Horribilis' in 1992 like really? She had to withstand the divorce of her kids. How fucking terrifying! OMG! Lol. Hail the queen for withstanding such terrible catastrophe!
There’s also also a supposed pedo who is a prince and his whole life was party like a rockstar. Then there’s another prince who intervenes/vetted bills to go in his favor and against tenants so that they couldn’t buy “his” properties.
Also according to the butlers in several books these assholes have never put toothpaste in their own toothbrush. Like...really? Come on.
I (19) have known this girl (21) for years and years. I am in shape because I work out a few hours a day and have a physically demanding job.
She is chubby, but also curvy. She told me that she had been feeling a bit down because she felt like she didn't 'deserve' to have sex with me because she is overweight.
I told her I loved her body the way it is to try and make her feel better- I honestly do. She is still well groomed so she has a nice soft body and It feels so good an comfortable when I have sex with her.
She also told me she feels bad that she gets tired quick and that I have to 'do all the work', but I enjoy being with her. She told me her plans on her workout schedule and what worries me is that she wants to eat very little and almost starve herself.
Ever since I've been trying to male her feel better about her body by going down on her more, kissing her around her whole body, and even giving her some massages.
I don't know what else to do and it mames me feel bad because she is honestly good looking just how she is. How can I truly get her to be more confident in herself and make her feel comfortable with how she is?
Hi, I’ve been a lurker for a while and I’ve come to notice that a lot of people have the idea that your weight loss should be centred around yourself, and what YOU want to do. It also seems to stressed that you shouldn’t be losing weight to please others or to ‘conform’ to their expectations. I think that’s wrong. I think so long as you’re happy and working towards your goal with enough determination to succeed, you SHOULD be allowed to bask in the positive reinforcement around you. YES be happy about the people noticing your new body, YES be happy that your coworkers are showering you in compliments. It’s said the key to a good diet is having a brain that works with you and not against you. All of these things are motivational, and effectively the lubricant to a successful diet.
At a party or a camping trip. A Russian song played and sung nicely by a foreigner (not including ex-USSR countries) that would really impress or surprise you.