Give In

I'm having a hard time finding the right words to say, the closest I've come is "no te des por vencido" ? Which I believe is "don't give up" I was wondering if there was something more specific like "don't give in" in English

So i dreamed about fapping last night, and woke up with a boner in the morning. Is this a good sign or i am stressed about it?

I'm m(24) and I met a f(27) last june,

We talked initially very well although there were occasions where she messed with my emotions, if it was intentional or not is debatable

We gave each other sexual pleasure but never direct sex

She had a 9-5 job and I'm self employed

Slowly from around october to January she slowly became cold to me, every time she had less time.and seemed less interested in talking to me. It came to a point where I couldn't take it anymore. She ignored me all day saying I'm busy im busy wait and at night when she would finally answer. All she would say is "Well I'm going to sleep now" if we were talking she would get distracted half way into the conversation, she'd start doing something else like be on her phone or straight up walk away to do something as I'm talking to her. The only time she would actually have time for me is when there was something in her interest like help with something for her work I had experience with which heavily put an emotional toll on my self esteem

Late February I got sick of it. She had no excuse to ignore me as her work shut down for the quarantine and she still went the whole day without answering

I was so sick of it I would not answer her for 3-4 days at a time. And she told me that that was beneficial as she felt less stressed out over me messaging her repeatedly. This pissed me off even harder and i was furious at this point So I decided to changed it to a week the time I would take to reply instead and i blocked her for the time in between. After one week she told me she doesnt feel like being my girlfriend anymore and wants to be just friends. I tell her fk no, I told her she's a horrible girlfriend but even lower than that shes a horrible friend and that if she hurt my feelings even one more time I'd get rid of her from my life entirely. After she read that message she immediately blocks me and I decided that's the final straw that she blockdd me. A week later she called me begging me to let her back into my life crying and trying to give explanations but I didnt give in.

In this time I started talking with my ex and a girl I like but don't necessarily like the latter as a girlfriend

Today she messaged me a YouTube link to a video where the lyrics say something like I miss you and it's painful to just sit back and watch but i want you to be happy, I sent her back a link to lil Wayne song how to hate

I like her but I know too well she will continue to treat me like an expend

Ever since I can remember I have had problems with impulse control. I always start out with the best intentions but always give in in the end. The other day I beat my temptations when I walked into a bakery and later walked out without buying anything. This was such a big deal for me! I still struggle with temptation. It feels like everyday I think about quitting and dream about when I can wean myself off Keto. Does anybody have any advice on how to get over this mental slump? I've been trying lots of recipes and trying to keep snacks on hand.

P.s I'm a 23 year old female, 156lbs, 5'8 My current tracker has my macros at 17g carbs, 105g fat and 84g protein.

So guys, I've only got only a few more months left to be a teenager, so I decided to give you a few tips about life and such. I hope you will follow them, or at least learn from them, thats all I want, you all deserve to be happy

1 - Listen to your parents, I know it sounds stupid, but in most cases they will be right - but don't forget you must listen to yourself also, take your parents' advice, they are there to help you in life

2 - If you feel a friend has bad influence on you - just let them go, memories last, sometimes forever, but being in a toxic company is way worse, I've been forced to do things mainly because others in my company were thinking it's ''cool''

3 - Take relationships seriously, since I am a guy, I can talk about guys, don't break girls' hearts, be good, if you get hurt, don't become ''that guy'', you know what I talk about, remember the nice things and move on

4 - Music will be your friend, don't ever be ashamed to listen to music you enjoy just because others hate on it

5 - Live life to it's fullest, time flies, I remember the times when me and my friends were playing Minecraft all night long, sleeping late for school because of that our friend died in the cave and we had to find his items

6 - If you believe you got some kind of mental illness, talk to your parents, if they do not take you seriously in first place, take your time to make the conversation serious, your mental health is a priority!!

7 - Don't compare to others, you are unique

8 - This is a really important one - DON'T DO DRUGS, especially hard ones (since a lot of people asked me about drugs in the comments - if you wanna try, be responsible and take care! Remove any sharp objects nearby, choose a nice company, enjoy the moment, don't overdo it - it wont end up in anything good, take care everyone!)

9 - Sadly, the chances of you still being friends with the people you are friends with now - are very low, I am in contact with about 5-6, 1 or 2 of which I can trust my life

10 - Stop obsessing with what you look on the outside, yea, I know, we all got that facial feature we hate, most people do not even notice

11 - If a friend of yours seems sad or depressed, talk to them, sometimes a few nice words can save a life!!

12 - USE CONDOMS!! Not only about pregnancy, there are tons of others who got STDs, keep yourself save

13 - Just don't smoke, it's not cool, you smell like ashtray - save up those money and learn investing

14 - Workout, fitness is great, it bui

So, I (F18)work in a supermarket and recently my coworker (M50s?) asked for my phone number. We do talk at work quite often, and he’s never done anything to make me question, always been very nice and we have a laugh when work is slow. I’ve also been working with him for about a year so I mean I know him vaguely as a colleague. But he recently asked for my phone number - he did say how he wasn’t asking me out, but it didn’t sit great with me and I don’t think I want to be in contact with him out of work. I think this is fair enough. I’d been avoiding his asks for social media’s, saying ‘ah I don’t have X’ or ‘I don’t go on Y often’ but when he asked for my number I flat out said no.

Cue some awkward laughter because I’m an awkward teenager.

Here’s when I think I might be TA - walking back from a little job at the end of the day, he asked the time so I got out my phone which I always have on me. My dad had also texted for a lift so I replied to that quickly while walking with him, and he asked me why I wouldn’t give him my number if I had it on me? After more awkward laughing and me saying how I see him every week anyway, I still didn’t give it to him and he looked hurt. I feel like TA because he’s genuinely a nice guy and he does just want to be in contact, but I still said no.

Am I an asshole for still refusing to give him my number, even though he probably has nice intentions ? He did say it was only if I went away or was ill or something, and we’re all lonely (work is the only time anyone here can go out) but I just don’t think I want him to have my number. He asked 3 times this shift and I don’t know if he’ll carry on asking me /:

So, here's e deal. Over a month clean now. First time in probably 30 years or more.

I just went back to work after being on medical leave and disability for the past year due to anxiety and major depressive disorder. I'm thrilled to be working again. Work isn't stressful.

That fact that I have so little time after work is. I have to work out five days a week. Doctor's orders. My gym is about 30 minutes away. I also have to sleep by 10:00. Also doctor's orders.

I've not exercised since Friday. I wanted to tonight, but dinner was held up and I've just not had time.

So, I want so much the relief of mindlessly browsing my familiar drug of choice.

But I don't want it to rule me. So I'm typing this. Maybe I'll give in in another hour. Or maybe I'll go to sleep.

Edit: I put heavy metal through my earbuds and went to sleep to the soothing sounds of Slayer and Quiet Riot.

I feel more anonymous online and more carefree to use this community than other more public communities

I was clean for four months up until a few days ago. I only did a few superficial cuts which barely bled but I think I might've opened the door to selfharm again. I'm afraid of going back to my worst times because I don't want to cause anyone problems. I know that I'll eventually need stitches again if I don't control myself now but it's so hard. It feel like I've been wandering in a desert for days and I spot a bottle of water. That's what I feel now. Desperate. Like it's something I need to survive, like I'd die or crumble if I don't do it. I threw out my tools four months ago, thinking that not having it in my room might make it easier to resist. I was a fool. A few days ago I accidentally found an old pencil sharpener blade I've used and it's like I felt relief for being able to give in. In that second I couldn't help it and used it. Four lines only but rusty blood could've caused infection. I was lucky though which makes me think it's okay to use again, that I won't have an infection next time. I know I'm fooling myself, I do realise that. It's getting harder to come up with reasons as to why I stopped in the first place. And I think alcohol is the devil for my mother.. I'm such a hypocrite.

I get it, orphans sell. It's why Batman and Spiderman without a mom and a dad work. But this idea has already been super played out already in this series & I would welcome a refreshing change. Would love it if the next AC game has a main character with a loving spouse and a wonderful family they fight tooth and nail to protect from harm and make it out alive until the end.

Title pretty much says it all. Despite now being in my 30s I’m still shocked at how many people view genuine feedback (even when presented sensitively) as a personal attack.

A real friend will not be afraid to call you out on your BS. Surrounding ourselves with sycophants just delays personal growth.

Edit: Apparently this opinion isn’t unpopular enough for some of you which is fine but you can quit commenting it now. Y’all are blowing up my inbox.

Rotating the weekly pinnacle between all three dungeons would be another reason to replay them.

The catalysts should be a random drop from the final boss.

Catalyst progress should be from completing their dungeons.

Wishender catalyst should be faster drawtime and anti barrier.

Xenophage catalyst should be auto-loading holster.

Everything about every voice line she has on the field just depresses the absolute hell out of me. She sounds so soft, so distant, so uninterested. If I wanted that, I'd have Qiqi as my main healer instead of Barb.

I can't believe how thoroughly they have ruined her character with this one change. It's like they wanted to portray her more as a priestess than a pop idol, when her entire gimmick is being a pop idol. With any luck, the NA branch of MiHoYo are capable of acknowledging a bad decision and fixing it.