AITA for ruining my childs gender reveal?

Myself (27M) and my wife (27F) are having a boy, we already have a girl who is now 2. My wife is really into films, oscar type films and she is like an analyser when watching them so she wanted to make a gender reveal short film, 10 minutes long to say we're having a girl, kind of weird but I went along with it, we posted it and she was super happy with it but it cost so much, she hired expensive cameras, we drove out to scenic areas for the right shot, I'm working full time during this process, exhausting.

So we just found out that we're having a boy and she started writing a script, I thought there's no fucking way I'm doing that again so I posted on facebook "we're having a boy", she's pissed at me telling me to delete it but the damage is done, I don't feel bad, I saved us at least Β£4k.

What I don't get it why she's just making films about gender reveals, she can write a script about anything and not be on a strict ~6-7 month time limit.

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1.) what are the point of gender reveal parties? Is it just another β€œlook at me” type party? Before Covid, I was invited to one but I don’t care what genitalia the baby has. I declined.

2.) when did they become a β€œthing”? Growing up in the late 80s early 90s I never heard of such parties happening. In the past few years I hear of them being all over.

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My wife and I are having twins. We only recently found out, though we don't know the sex because the legs were obscuring it. We do plan on getting another ultrasound at 19 weeks to find out the sex, but until then, it's conjecture.

I haven't been that vocal on what the gender of the baby is. I honestly didn't care, but after she asked me, I just said I wanted a boy and a girl. I don't think that's inherently bad. I'm not favoring a gender, and even if I get two girls or two boys, I'll love them the same.

She didn't get full-on mad, but she was disappointed. She said I wasn't supposed to have gender preferences for our future children because I could be disappointed in them and not love them as much, and she didn't want that. She is a tad bit hormonal, which is totally reasonable, so I do understand not to take anything to hurt me on purpose.

So, I am wondering if I was seriously wrong in this situation. AITA random people of the interwebs?

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