Im selling my house tomorrow and moved back in with the parents. What risky to the moon investments can I make to impress the most money hungry cougar that I can land? Need a cougar den next
OK, girls I'm gonna need your help here. It's that time again. I've worn out being nice to DMs and PMs that consist of: Hey? Hi? Wassup? How are you? Wanna see my dick? Just a dick pic Do you have snap, kik, or whatsapp? I wanted to talk to you about being a cougar? I wanted to ask you about cougar/cub relationships? Or a boat load of other similar openers
Cubs, if you feel the need to contact a Cougar on here DO IT PROPERLY AND WITH A PURPOSE! Introduce yourself, state where you are from, and give the reason why you are contacting them! Take it one step further and include a face Pic. (to load a Pic in messaging, load to imgur and copy and paste the link in the message) OK, so that you've got it, it's 4 things to do when contacting a cougar: 1. Introduce yourself 2. Where are you located 3. Why you are contacting them 4. Face pic
Cougars get a lot of messages. I know I don't want to watch you cum, help you cum, see your dick, discuss my sex life wit... keep reading on reddit ➡
Almost made me puma pants
So I have this running theory (not backed by any science of course haha) that a lot of cougars tend to be teachers! Is this true? What is your career path? The three I have been with in the last 5 years have all been teachers.
So interesting story actually... I just became recently divorced. My ex wifes step mom has always been a great friend of mine. We have tons in common and act like best friends lol there is definately an age gap between us though me being 27 and her being literally 40 years older than me. (My exs dad was 55 when he had her so my mother in law is quite older than myself) recently my ex and my mother in law have had a horrible fall out since my exs dad died. So for my children's sake and my mother in laws I have been keeping in contact and hanging out with her and taking my kids to see her. Well over the past months me and her have had a few moments of flirtation. And this past weekend I took her to the beach with my kids to just have fun. Once my kids went to their moms I headed back over to my mother in laws to just hang out and play videogames with her. Well we started drinking and things honestly got really hot between the two of us. She was worried that with her age I wouldnt find he... keep reading on reddit ➡
It is possible to be happy 😃
Mammals EXCLUDING humans. I live in an area where the most dangerous wild animal you’ll see is the occasional coyote so the facts that a lot of people live in areas where encounters with wildlife happen often such as Alaska or parts of Wyoming and a lot of the midwest, is crazy to me. Any crazy encounter stories?
I get messages every day from every state and corner of the globe from guys asking if they can be one of my cubs. Do other cougars have cub packs? Is collecting cubs a thing? How does it work? Is there a guidebook? What does being ones cub entail? What is the cougars responsibility to the cub and vice a versa? Can anyone explain this?
I was briefly involved with a much older woman who was very submissive and enjoyed some BDSM style activities. I was surprised because in my head I always thought older women would be dominant in the bedroom when it came to younger men. So how many of you are submissive? What are things that you qualify as being submissive acts and not just in the realm of regular sex? Are you just submissive with younger men?
is so cringey...and he keeps doing it. Yikes! It’s almost as bad as watching Henry and Christina talk about, literally anything.
My husband and I are in our late 30s. We are taking a break from swinging until COVID is over. So the other night we were watching something on Netflix and there was a middle age woman who slept with a much younger guy (18-19) and my husband admitted that he thinks it would hot to see me fuck a guy that age. We dirty talked a bit about our neighbor's son. I would never go there, way too messy if it got out. But in general I am not against it, if it wasnt someone so close, but I am wondering what other redditors takes are? Is it ok or would i be like a predator taking advantage?
edit: thank you everyone who posted. just to clarify the dirrty talk about my neighbor's son is just talk. we would definitely never play with anyone so close to home. and more generally, we havent ruled it out but we are going to keep it fantasy for at least until COVID is over.
I’m 40. Been widowed 9 months. Was with my husband (1.5 years older than me) for 20 years. He was the most amazing man ever. I know he’d want me to be happy, enjoy life, and be respected. I dated a guy five years older than me and it was absolute insanity. Controlling and jealous. Life’s too short to be attached to a prick, so I said bye! A few weeks ago I started talking to a former co-worker, who’s 26. Then I joined Tinder, talking to a 30 year old hottie. 30 year old hottie was supposed to come over tonight, then forgot he already had plans. Is this common in cub world??
i'm 32. my days are spent watching bob's burgers and working on a screenplay until i have to login for work from home.
Did you ever bring up a movie, song, famous person, slang word, etc. and your partner had no idea who/what it was?
As always there will be a large supply of cubs and demand for cougars, but will there be an increase in the demand for cubs or increase in the supply of cougars when things get closer to normal?
Sadly, divorces have increased. The silver lining is that some of these women will be looking to try a younger model than their ex. I can also see single women in general needing some extra attention after all the social distancing and isolation.
I'm optimistic. This is a great time for cubs to improve themselves. Put in the work now and reap the rewards later.
Title says it all, currently kicking myself
A little background I'm 54 (F) he's going to be 38 (M). We are both married, he's getting divorced. (I'm sad for him, I could feel his sadness about it). My husband is a lot older and he can no longer have sex (medical issues). Please don't judge. The one thing that life has taught me is that you never know what life may put in your path. So don't judge! We met for breakfast and the plan was that I would buy breakfast, he wouldn't let me. He said "you'll get it next time, this way if you don't contact me again it's because you didn't want to pay for breakfast." He got a very nice hotel room. And I had the best 4 hours that I've had in a very long time. He continuously checked that I was ok. I thought that was thoughtful. He didn't know that I work out approximately 2 hours a day at the gym. I think he was pleasantly surprised. We both have checked in today and we will see each other again. Edit: No need to message me guys, I'm perfectly happy with my current situation. I don't... keep reading on reddit ➡
Last night (8/22) around 9:45 pm a friend was walking on Harris, towards Fairhaven, when he quite literally nearly collided with a cougar that was traveling north along 19th St. He said the cougar was moving at a light run and emerged from a front yard about 6 feet in front of him. It recoiled and very briefly turned to face him, so he got a clear look at it before it darted off in the same direction it had been traveling.
Hard to say whether it was just making a brief foray out of the Chuckanuts, maybe following a deer, or if it was headed for the Arboretum. My guess is Arboretum, since it ran forward rather than backwards after being spooked, but who knows - either way just wanted to give folks a heads up to keep an eye on your pets if you live in Happy Valley/South Hill or plan on walking through the Arboretum anytime soon.
Is there any cougars that enjoy sports? or have a common sport that is enjoyed between them and their cub?
So, if you’re talking to a guy from a dating app and it’s unspoken but you both basically know you’re hanging out to hopefully hook up....and you get your period....what do you do?
Do you mention it? Do you tell him when you’re with him? Do you not say anything?
Very specific question but I’m legit curious what your thoughts are.
Also, cubs...if this was your first time meeting a woman as you were going over to her place and you both knew the vibe was physical would you wanna know and when?
Would you wanna reschedule?
It truly baffles me why these animals are allowed to continue existing and mauling. This only factors in deaths, not how many people are maimed irreversibly every year by the hell hounds. People that own Pitbulls in my eyes are as deranged as people that own big cats as if they're pets.
I’m 21m cub and was wondering if I should be wasting my time on these dating apps to meet cougars? I know that one of you is going to say no meet them in real life but what are the odds of an older woman wanting to be with a younger guy like me since the vast majority of older women don’t like younger men.
Are they open about it? How much of a taboo thing is it with older women? Would they be afraid to flirt / show signs? And also how common/uncommon is it? Because i get into conversations with older women a lot because I work in sales and they’re usually pretty engaged with talking to me and they’re really nice, even over the top nice sometimes. A few times I’ve even had 15+ minute conversations with them. But even though I’m 28, I look younger, like I have a bit of a baby face and I can’t help but think “so do these women see me as a child like their son or something? Or am I a potential sex partner for them?”
Obviously everybody has their own tastes, that goes for any woman, but typically with a woman my age, from her perspective it’s “I either like him or I don’t”. But for an older woman, they might not even be considering me AT ALL because of my age and how young I look. I’m not even sure what signals to pick up on, because I’ll get called honey pretty often by them, but that’s lik... keep reading on reddit ➡
I do. I’m a 45F, kids are 18+ and I can’t have any more.
Cubs, do you think about the future with your cougar? Kids, living situation, her getting older, etc.
Cougars, same question but opposite lol
Me, I would love a full on relationship with a man. My issue is that since I’ve had kids, I wouldn’t want to stop someone from experiencing that.
Delivery on Aug. 13th!
Come one guys! Get it before its late!
Beyond 'woman who dates younger men'... What's the age difference that makes you one? 🤔 I date a man, 13 years younger but I can't feel any difference, noone can even tell.
Anyone know where all the single older woman been going out to which bars ?
I have had this happen before and it always ticks me off. I sometimes think they don’t really mean it. I think they just say that , as a test or a game, just to see if you will continue to go after them. I guess they want to see if you are really serious. Cougars have their own games that they play, in my experience.
I've been reading and thinking about how various women interpret the term Cougar. While I understand how some dislike the term, I (F47) would like to offer another perspective. I'm more about the metaphysical (for lack of a better term) side of spiritually and one of my hobbies over the years, had been about studying totem animals. So with that in mind, in the totem animal realm (as it were), the Cougar represents one who has come into their own power and strength. Isn't that what us women are supposed to do anyway? I think that while it's not being mentioned specifically, most cubs are attracted to our power, whether it's nsa, fwb, ltr or a run down the aisle, I'd be willing to bet that that's what attracts them. Our power. Our strength. So for me personally, being called or considered a Cougar doesn't bother me one bit - not when that's my point of view. I just wanted to throw that out there as another way of seeing it, no need for the DM's, just wanted to share that with the other... keep reading on reddit ➡
I don't know who you are but you were in defensive mode on PS4 today and I had been riding around when seeing the Legendary Animal Icon on the map, and you also went for it. I tried helping you kill the cougar since we were both getting mauled but my gun's aim locked onto you twice and I killed you while you were being mauled and I'm sorry!
I went to give you the cougar but you shot at me multiple times as I tried to give you the horse so I ran with it.
No clue if you'll see this, but I was not trying to steal the animal, just trying to help a fellow player out. I still have the animal completely whole and if you still, by chance, happen to be online, my PSN is KLUNKER023 and I'd be happy to give you the animal you hunted for. If this sounds like you, please let me know, and tell me what your character was wearing so I can compare it!
I’ve always been into milfs/cougars/older women. When I was in high school and college, I defined that pretty liberally - basically 30 and up. Now that I’m 30, I’m still most strongly attracted to women 30 and up, even though I’m now 30 myself. I used to think it was the age difference that was a turn-on, and maybe it is/was, but I’m realizing it might just be about their maturity, sexually and otherwise.
I’m curious, for those who are or have been into older men/women, has that changed over time? If so, how?