Using an alternate account since i can be identified from my other account. Also sorry for the long post.
I've been married for almost 5 years now. My wife and I got married in Europe and in the beginning I told my wife i would be ok with having 1 kid (which was the truth) We moved to the states and lived on a military base where the norm is to have 3, 4, 5+ kids. I know 1 person with 5 and another with 7! She made friends with someone off base that ended up having 2 kids and would post on FB/IG about what a happy family they were. But I would hear from my wife about how miserable she is behind closed doors and that she just cries in the bathroom alone all the time because she just needs a break from the stress of being a mom. All I hear about is how miserable people are because of their kids and see how shitty children could be if the parents dont correct them when they could. Theres so much more i can talk about this post would get waaaaaaaay too long.
I always got uncomfortable w... keep reading on reddit ➡
I'm exhausted but experiencing one of those moments where everything feels perfect. At some point soon we'll all get up and get busy but right now it's quiet in the city, the sun is rising, the birds are chirping, and I feel happy.
ETA: Cat tax https://imgur.com/a/nULu322 (both pics from this morning)
Couldn't get a good video recorded because I'm an idiot. Have fun!
For real. This games highest points have all been around exploits that rained down loot. The community goes crazy over these things, myself included, playing way more than I normally would because the game finally feels rewarding and fun to play. But Bungie always axes them quickly and I’m off to other games like borderlands or diablo that actually learn from things like this and improve the game built on that. (Yes I know diablo took time, but for real, at least they overhauled the loot system tenfold)
I really just don’t get it. Why is it when the game feels fun, those things get hit with the hammer.
When something like one eyed mask breaks crucible for two years before getting addressed, yet heaven forbid we have an extra drop at the end of a Nightfall. Just makes me wonder what the fuck the priorities are. Cause it doesn’t feel like it’s towards anything rewarding or fun most the time.
Bungie. Please learn from the fact that when it rains loot, we want to play the game more. D... keep reading on reddit ➡
is that too much to ask for. like literally that would make my year
Davy Jones alone is an achievement in technical cinema. His character design is flawless. I have yet to see the likes of him represented in the same way - and while a couple films come close, ILM's VFX in Dead Man’s Chest have proven to be timeless. There is not one point in the film where my suspension of disbelief was compromised.
I was dead-convinced Davy Jones was real - like genuinely real-real. I could have sworn it was some sort of combination between animatronics/makeup and masks, but the fact that his character is 100% completely computer generated speaks volumes to the incredible craftsmanship of the animators and artists who worked on this film. Bill Nighy's performance is amazing, too. Truly groundbreaking in all his tentacle porn glory.
I think there's also something to be said about the cinematography. This film is extremely well-shot. Gore Verbinski's camerawork is off-the-charts incredible. I really appreciate the colour grading and distinct use of film grain in... keep reading on reddit ➡
Just wanted to share how I pretty easily crafted my explode chest, and how I plan to make it as strong as possible by the end of the league using only deterministic crafting. Wish me luck!
Base: ilvl 86 (85 will work but cant get T1 life) crusader chest. Mine is a Full Dragonscale. Astral Plate is probly best but has high strength requirement. This should work on any base type.
Spam Essence of Contempt (1c each), or Jagged fossils (3c) until hitting "Phys taken as Lightning" Prefix and "Reflects X Physical Damage to Melee Attackers" Prefix with one open Prefix and one open Suffix
Bench Craft any Suffix
Use "Augment Phys mod" Harvest craft for guaranteed explode mod (T1 Wild Hellion Seed)
This is now a usable explode chest, its biggest cost is the time to get "Augment Phys Mod."The following crafts are what I will do over time as I find the seeds/crafts
Bench Craft Prefixes can’t be changed Suffix and scour (2ex)
Bench Craft Fire Resist Suffix
Use "Remove Fire, add Fire" Harve... keep reading on reddit ➡
My cousin was 22 years old healthy and now she’s gone. Overnight she was having chest pains and when she got to the hospital died from a heart attack. She lives with my aunt and uncle. Over the nest few days the whole family went to pay our respects. Now my uncle is in the hospital positive for COVID. He is showing signs of neumonía and they are doing a plasma transfusion from someone that survived COVID hoping that helps. As for me and my wife, we were both over at their house without masks or anything. How likely is it we caught it? I am worried for my 2 daughters. COVID was the last thing on our mind since the hospital told us she passed from a heart attack. It’s been 6 days so far and we are showing no symptoms.
Update: Thank you all for your advice and kind words. My wife and I just left the hospital, we were swab tested and antibody blood tested. The antibody came back negative for both of us and the swab test we get back Wednesday. So far no symptoms or anything. Everyone that... keep reading on reddit ➡
First, and I want to make this abundantly clear, it is never ok to hit a kid or get in their face and scream (emotional abuse). So if your parents do this, they are wrong and I’m not defending them.
Second, I browse this subreddit because it helps me understand things from the teenage point of view, my son doesn’t really talk to me about serious matters, it seems he has a hard time opening up about serious stuff.
Third, I see a lot of posts and comments about parents “flipping out over small stuff.” The small stuff can add up to be “big stuff” if you let it. It can get supremely annoying having to clean up the same breakfast mess every day, when I’ve explicitly told him to do it and I need to leave for work. Or when I’m doing laundry and can’t find any towels, then I go into his bedroom and there are SIX towels on the bedroom floor. Those are just a couple examples, but basically by not taking care of the “small things,” you are communicating to your parents that their time isn’t val... keep reading on reddit ➡
39, male, lives in South Florida.
I have a lump on my chest that appeared on Thursday around noon. It’s kinda weird, because I used the toilet and it wasn’t there. Then, as I was taking a shower, I noticed it.
It’s a flat lump, about the size of a quarter, to the left of my right nipple. I don’t know if it’s a boil. I don’t see a white head on it but I do believe I see a tiny hole where it’s possible someone would come out. Or maybe there was a hair there that I may have yanked out accidentally during showering.
It hurt quite a bit on Thursday and prevented me from getting much sleep. On Friday, I took two ibuprofen and pain went away. I haven’t take any Ibuprofen since. I let if soak under the shower with warm water. And I keep a bandage on it.
Sometimes it does it but only for a couple of minutes. You can’t really notice the lump (it’s sort of a hard flat lump under the skin) but the lower half of my right boob i... keep reading on reddit ➡
Recently amicably divorced, separated almost 4 years ago.
Was at a concert in fall of 2018, met a woman and casually dated for a year- it was to be casual and fun. And it was. Logistics were not always easy, but we made it work.
Fall of 2019, something changed, and things got more serious between us. It was nice.
Last weekend, after having this conversation twice, she called off our relationship as I was not emotionally available to her. I wasn’t. My ex also called it out without knowing I was dating- fix yourself or you’re going to get dropped for not being accessible.
I’m slow to move on emotions, and very guarded. I also had some reservations blocking me up-
While separated long ago, divorce was only finaled early this year. Wounds were reopened through that process. Things felt too soon.
We didn’t entirely share the same interests- things that are important to me- spending time in the outdoors, hiking, camping, fishing, skiing in the winter. this caused an internal st
My wife left me and took our two children with her approximately 2 months ago because I was becoming very emotionally abusive while drinking. In retrospect, I have been treating her rather poorly over the past year as my drinking problem gradually entered a more intense stage. The separation has been extremely hard for me to deal with emotionally. As you can imagine, I have been trying to stop more than ever since she left. I had some success here and there, but never much longer than two weeks. But of course, every time I relapsed, I would foolishly call her and a giant fight would ensue, further damaging our relationship.
Last week, the absolute worst thing that has ever happened in my life occurred. I relapsed, HARD (Drank a fifth of whiskey and then some). I started drinking at noon, and had completely blacked out by five o'clock. I woke up the next day around eight o'clock having no recollection of the night before. The first thing I noticed was that I threw up off the side of my... keep reading on reddit ➡
Nothing like going into a patrol area and finding a chest just for it to drop a tiny bit of glimmer, some planetary material and a blue.
I get not giving them powerful loot but in D1 they had some rare schematics for ships that could be hunted and farmed for and those ships used to be some of my favorite looking ships.
If they were given some ship schematics for each of the planets, planetary ghosts with random rolls and maybe a rare shader for each too, it would actually make them usable (at least for short term).
Maybe adding some consumables and mods that make them worth while too? Idk but atm they're just useless and redundant.
Edit: yes, cosmetics should be in activities too, same problem thats been repeated by every player since the games release but thats never gonna happen unless its through eververse. Still doesn't solve this simple mechanic that has been in the game from the start and has sucked and hasn't gotten better at all.